We don't fight anymore, and we don't love each other anymore.

1 the epidemic is finally coming to an end, and the conflicts between many couples have reached a point of burning. Recently, I often received private messages from readers saying that after getting along with each other during this period, I found that there were a lot of emotional problems between myself and my partner:

I always did not have a sense of security, suspected that he was having an affair, and could not help peeking at his mobile phone often. We had nothing in common to talk about, and I often quarreled and had a cold war. I was very miserable.

We started to love each other very much, but we often quarreled because of some trifles. He cheated after his marriage. I didn't want to divorce and make a scene with him, but it backfired. He said that he could hardly live a day with me now.

just confirmed the relationship, long-distance relationship makes me worry about gains and losses, I always talk about breaking up and threaten him to coax me, but this time he never took the initiative to contact me.

Love is not a fairy tale, and there is no sense of security forever in life.

it's normal to have problems. Even couples who are very loving and grow old together will experience many divorce crises in their lives.

what should I do if there is something wrong with my relationship? Now many women give only one answer: leave!

it's relieving to say this, but the feelings are different, and I don't approve of giving up easily.

2 most people may not know that all love goes through three stages:  attraction stage, value stage, and role complementary stage.

but most emotional problems occur in the value stage when there are misunderstandings and conflicts, followed by quarrels, cold wars, power struggles, infidelity, breakups, divorce, and so on. Therefore, there is no suitable person in this world.  marriage needs running-in, and happiness depends on management.

in the past five years, among the more than 30000 students who came to us for guidance and consultation, there were all kinds of problems in their relationships, except for the cases in which even I found it hopeless and persuaded her to start a new life. Most people's feelings can be repaired, but they just don't know the right way to fix them.

perhaps in the eyes of outsiders, many relationships are not worth saving. But if you look at it from a utilitarian point of view, life is a game process, and the choices you are willing to make will certainly be in your "interests" as much as possible.

3    Darling, are you willing to be brave and

take the initiative to restore your feelings?

Today let's talk about how to analyze and save feelings:

if you are between 20 and 48 years old and encounter some emotional problems, you want to save your love or marriage, and you may also want to skillfully separate the third party in your relationship, then you can use some fragmented time to read this article completely. It will tell you some ways to get your relationship back quickly.

if you still have doubts about how to save your relationship after reading the article, Wechat of vows to build a marriage and relationship counseling team has it at the end of the article, hoping to help those friends who are hurt in love but can't sort out their love.

4   as a domestic love and marriage counseling team,  advocates using scientific methods to restore love, while opposing all emotional recovery methods such as "admitting mistakes", "begging", "being reasonable", "crying" and "blocking people" . We think that these methods will only make the predecessor resent and resist, and it is impossible to achieve the goal of redemption.

Origin

the person in charge of the oath tree said:

to restore love, you must make efforts on emotional strategy skills, otherwise, everything will be spent in vain.

if you don't master the skills of emotional strategy, even if you happen to save it for you, you will break up next.

Why some people are such assholes and still have peach blossoms, and why some people are sincere and kind but always miss love. The difference lies in emotional strategy and skills.

No one can change for one person. and few people can act like each other for a long time.

so, if you want to be an emotional controller, you have to learn emotional strategy skills, and the reliable way to learn emotional strategy skills is to follow the steps of emotional mentors to learn step by step, to operate and recover.

eight years ago, I was lovelorn

I don't understand why I was so nice to my boyfriend that he still left me and refused to go. After two and a half years of love, I paid so much to him, and finally got this ending, which made me lose my reason in an instant.

I started a series of wrong salvage operations, obsessing over asking him the reason for the breakup, and he ignored it.

then I began to be reasonable, and he began to look impatient and didn't even reply to me anymore.

I became anxious, I became impatient, I kept calling him and texting him, and all I got was the blocking ending.

then I suffered from depression, and after a failed suicide, my family took me to see a psychiatrist.

I am grateful to my psychiatrist, Dr. Zhang, who not only helps me treat depression. Depression will also help me emotionally. Under his guidance,  it took me two months to get out of depression and two months to save my ex-boyfriend until now we are married and have our first baby.

the method that Dr. Zhang instructed me to recover is very special, beyond my imagination at that time. There is no need to pester each other, do not need to admit mistakes, do not need to persuade the other party to recover, but only need to create curious events and special layout events.  will make the other person interested in me again and willing to contact me actively.

while I just follow the guidance of my psychological teacher and follow the lines I have mastered beforehand,  can continue to promote the relationship with my ex and guide my ex to take the initiative to talk about getting back together with me.

Why should I save it?

some people may wonder why I insisted on saving my boyfriend when he was so determined to me.

first, I believe that meeting is fate, how can fate be so generous?

second, I know, but whenever there is a breakup, there must be problems on both sides. This is also the process that God has experienced us.

three times, I am afraid that if I don't get it back, I will regret it for the rest of my life.

I am very grateful to Dr. Zhang, a psychiatrist who helped me. The only drawback is that in the past six months, I paid a high psychological consultation fee, almost 10,000 yuan a month, and spent 60,000 yuan after half a year.

I'm not complaining that psychiatrists charge too much. After all, their professional knowledge and experience have helped me recover from this relationship and get out of depression. If you ask me how much I am willing to pay for this result, I think it is worth it to spend more!

but I also sigh that I succeeded in saving my love because I can pay a high fee to learn how to save it. Ask the teacher to guide me to save it.

so don't those who are in financial difficulties deserve to learn to save love?

this is not fair!

at the same time, I also sigh that although Dr. Zhang's recovery method is powerful, it takes a long time and takes more than three months. That is to say, only an infatuated person like me can hold on for more than three months.

I have always had a goal, which is to reduce the recovery time to 30 days, 20 days, or even 10 days! I hope to have a good cause and get a good fate!

5

so in the next five years,

I experienced the following growth

1. At first, I just helped my friends get their love back with interest and enthusiasm.

2. I found myself redeeming my talent in the field of love. I became a professional relationship counselor and offered paid recovery services at a price range that office workers and even students could afford.

3. Because the salvage effect of my guidance is good, too many people have come to ask for redemption service, so I set up a small redemption studio and succeeded in saving love and marriage for thousands of people.

4. Later, because of the word of mouth and mutual recommendation of people seeking help, the number of friends who came to learn to save began to grow explosively, and the small studio no longer could accept all the recovery cases. I felt very guilty. To help more emotionally confused people, I decided to cooperate with the current investors, which led to the current corporate operation team-Oath Tree Marriage Consulting Co., Ltd.

since the corporatized operation, I have been thinking about a question, that is, how to enable the vast number of losers in love and marriage to learn this emotional rescue strategy and recover their success in a short period.

fortunately, we are included as member units by the Marriage Research Association. We can bond with more counselors who are willing to help others. Together, we have collected and summarized the case experience over the years and designed a set of easy-to-understand one-to-one guidance recovery courses. In the process of one-to-one guidance by mentors, I am more likely to supervise the instructor. Make sure that every applicant's wish for redemption can be truly realized.

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what exactly can our course teach you?

1. Why 99% of the recovery techniques are ineffective and make you unattractive! We will teach you a set of systematic emotional strategy recovery skills!

2, the reasons for the failure of love and marriage, as well as the initial quick recovery methods, as well as the specific steps!

3, the skill of letting the other party block or ignore you and let the other person contact you again!

4. A simple way to instantly make you more attractive to your ex and make him curious about you!

Origin

the person in charge of the oath tree said:

to restore love, you must make efforts on emotional strategy skills, otherwise, everything will be spent in vain.

if you don't master the skills of emotional strategy, even if you happen to save it for you, you will break up next.

Why some people are such assholes and still have peach blossoms, and why some people are sincere and kind but always miss love. The difference lies in emotional strategy and skills.

No one can change for one person. and few people can act like each other for a long time.

so, if you want to be an emotional controller, you have to learn emotional strategy skills, and the reliable way to learn emotional strategy skills is to follow the steps of emotional mentors to learn step by step, to operate and recover.

eight years ago, I was lovelorn

I don't understand why I was so nice to my boyfriend that he still left me and refused to go. After two and a half years of love, I paid so much to him, and finally got this ending, which made me lose my reason in an instant.

I started a series of wrong salvage operations, obsessing over asking him the reason for the breakup, and he ignored it.

then I began to be reasonable, and he began to look impatient and didn't even reply to me anymore.

I became anxious, I became impatient, I kept calling him and texting him, and all I got was the blocking ending.

then I suffered from depression, and after a failed suicide, my family took me to see a psychiatrist.

I am grateful to my psychiatrist, Dr. Zhang, who not only helps me treat depression. Depression will also help me emotionally. Under his guidance,  it took me two months to get out of depression and two months to save my ex-boyfriend until now we are married and have our first baby.

the method that Dr. Zhang instructed me to recover is very special, beyond my imagination at that time. There is no need to pester each other, do not need to admit mistakes, do not need to persuade the other party to recover, but only need to create curious events and special layout events.  will make the other person interested in me again and willing to contact me actively.

while I just follow the guidance of my psychological teacher and follow the lines I have mastered beforehand,  can continue to promote the relationship with my ex and guide my ex to take the initiative to talk about getting back together with me.

Why should I save it?

some people may wonder why I insisted on saving my boyfriend when he was so determined to me.

first, I believe that meeting is fate, how can fate be so generous?

second, I know, but whenever there is a breakup, there must be problems on both sides. This is also the process that God has experienced us.

three times, I am afraid that if I don't get it back, I will regret it for the rest of my life.

I am very grateful to Dr. Zhang, a psychiatrist who helped me. The only drawback is that in the past six months, I paid a high psychological consultation fee, almost 10,000 yuan a month, and spent 60,000 yuan after half a year.

I'm not complaining that psychiatrists charge too much. After all, their professional knowledge and experience have helped me recover from this relationship and get out of depression. If you ask me how much I am willing to pay for this result, I think it is worth it to spend more!

but I also sigh that I succeeded in saving my love because I can pay a high fee to learn how to save it. Ask the teacher to guide me to save it.

Dynamite in their sophistication, ethereal wedding dress makes your ensemble royally glamorous. You’ll be amazed by confidence that you have!

so don't those who are in financial difficulties deserve to learn to save love?

this is not fair!

at the same time, I also sigh that although Dr. Zhang's recovery method is powerful, it takes a long time and takes more than three months. That is to say, only an infatuated person like me can hold on for more than three months.

I have always had a goal, which is to reduce the recovery time to 30 days, 20 days, or even 10 days! I hope to have a good cause and get a good fate!

5

so in the next five years,

I experienced the following growth

1. At first, I just helped my friends get their love back with interest and enthusiasm.

2. I found myself redeeming my talent in the field of love. I became a professional relationship counselor and offered paid recovery services at a price range that office workers and even students could afford.

3. Because the salvage effect of my guidance is good, too many people have come to ask for redemption service, so I set up a small redemption studio and succeeded in saving love and marriage for thousands of people.

4. Later, because of the word of mouth and mutual recommendation of people seeking help, the number of friends who came to learn to save began to grow explosively, and the small studio no longer could accept all the recovery cases. I felt very guilty. To help more emotionally confused people, I decided to cooperate with the current investors, which led to the current corporate operation team-Oath Tree Marriage Consulting Co., Ltd.

since the corporatized operation, I have been thinking about a question, that is, how to enable the vast number of losers in love and marriage to learn this emotional rescue strategy and recover their success in a short period.

fortunately, we are included as member units by the Marriage Research Association. We can bond with more counselors who are willing to help others. Together, we have collected and summarized the case experience over the years and designed a set of easy-to-understand one-to-one guidance recovery courses. In the process of one-to-one guidance by mentors, I am more likely to supervise the instructor. Make sure that every applicant's wish for redemption can be truly realized.

7

what exactly can our course teach you?

1. Why 99% of the recovery techniques are ineffective and make you unattractive! We will teach you a set of systematic emotional strategy recovery skills!

2, the reasons for the failure of love and marriage, as well as the initial quick recovery methods, as well as the specific steps!

3, the skill of letting the other party block or ignore you and let the other person contact you again!

4. A simple way to instantly make you more attractive to your ex and make him curious about you!