There are always people who brew the bitterness of life into sweetness.
Life sometimes gives people bitterness, but there are always people who do not immerse themselves in bitterness, but brew bitterness into sweetness with a pair of skillful hands and a brave heart.
1 when walking through the square in front of the community in the evening, I always see a group of women dancing enthusiastically, and what attracts my most attention is the woman standing at the back of the line. She came to dance only every few times and stood at the end of the line every time. She was unskilled, often unable to keep up with the rhythm, and sometimes even danced a little clumsily, but she didn't mind, dancing freely, and looking back from time to time. Smile at the boy sitting on an electric tricycle not far away, and the boy raised the corners of his mouth at her. Later, I often met this woman during the day. She was ordinary-looking and dressed. She always rode an electric tricycle with a seven-or eight-year-old boy sitting on the tricycle.
I heard from an aunt downstairs that this woman has moved to our neighborhood for some time. The little boy is her son and cannot walk because of cerebral palsy. "it's not easy for her to have such a son." The aunt sighed. Then one day, when I was walking through the square in front of the community when I got off work late, it suddenly began to rain. It rained heavily and violently, and the dancing crowd disbanded in an instant. I saw the woman rush to the tricycle and tried to put up the rain shelter above, but the rain shelter seemed to be broken and could not be held up. She gave up helplessly and started the car ready to go. I had an umbrella in my hand and hurried over to cover the boy's head. The woman looked back and smiled gratefully at me. When I escorted them downstairs that night, the woman gratefully asked me if I wanted to go home and said that her family lived on the first floor. I shook my head and refused. She put the car away, picked up the boy with some difficulty, thanked me again, and said to me, "I open a Taobao shop to sell T-shirts. If you need a T-shirt or something, come to me." Later, I often bowed my head and didn't lookup. I became acquainted with a woman. When I knew her name was Gu Xia, I called her "Sister Xia".
2 A friend of mine wanted to buy a batch of white T-shirts, so I took her to Sister Xia's brick-and-mortar store. Sister Xia's shop is very close to our community, the storefront is not large, and it is full of goods. She was busy packing the package when she saw us come in to wipe the sweat on her forehead and greet us warmly. A friend looked at the white T-shirt in her store and thought it was of good quality and decided to buy it on the spot. Because the customer is my friend, Sister Xia has to give it to her at a price lower than the promotion price. Even my friend is a little embarrassed, saying that it is not easy to do business so that Sister Xia does not have to be too human. But Sister Xia smiled and said, "sometimes, human kindness is more important than business." Besides, I didn't lose money, and maybe I earned regular customers. " Her smile is warm and sincere, which makes an ordinary face look particularly vivid. While we were talking, Sister Xia's phone kept ringing and the buyer kept calling on the computer on the desk. She was very busy. I said, "can you handle it by yourself?" She smiled and said, "it costs a lot to hire people. I can handle it." "is the child at home now? Does his father have it with him? " I thought of the little boy sitting on the tricycle. "I'm divorced. My mother is taking care of the baby for me now. I won't be busy for a while, so I'll go back and have a look. " She said calmly as she was busy. I was filled with an apology for my question just now, but she didn't care and was still working hard to pack up her goods. Gradually, Sister Xia and I became friends and learned a lot about her. Sister Xia's son was found to have cerebral palsy soon after he was born, and her husband could not accept the fact that he divorced Sister Xia when the child was three years old.
Sister Xia brought up her child with the help of her elderly mother. To take care of the children, she quit her job in the government department and opened a clothing store. at first, business was not good, so she complied with the situation and opened a physical store while running a Taobao shop. because of strict purchase control and credit, the business of the small shop was getting better and better, but because she was reluctant to hire people and the intensity of her work was too intense, she was often so tired that her back arched and her legs cramped out in a cold sweat at night. Over the years, apart from being busy with business, she spends almost all her time on her children. she takes her children to seek medical advice, to find all kinds of famous doctors, and to do all kinds of rehabilitation training. in day-to-day training, the child's upper limbs become more and more flexible and have a certain ability to take care of themselves, but her legs have been unable to walk. I have been to Sister Xia's house, and the most eye-catching things in her home are all kinds of equipment to help children do rehabilitation training, some of which she bought and some made for her son. Her house is not big, but it is tidy and tidy.
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she invited me to try her Qifeng cake and egg tarts, showed me her orchids and tortoise-backed bamboos asked me to appreciate the fish and turtles she raised for her son and asked me to comment on all kinds of complex models she and her son put together. Let me appreciate her son's ice paintings. When she showed me these things, she was calm and slightly delighted. For a woman who lives so hard, there is no sadness on her body, but a trickle of love for life. At the end of the week, my friends and I went to the movies and met Sister Xia. She pushed her son in a wheelchair and waited outside for admission. There was a strange look around her, her expression was calm and indifferent, and her son's icy expression was natural. She said to me, "Bing Bing likes to watch movies. I often bring him here." At first, I felt a little inconvenient, but then I got used to it. I also want to make Bingbing accustomed to all kinds of environments, including people's curiosity and different eyes. " Later, I learned that Sister Xia not only often took Bing Bing to watch movies, but also took him to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, to the bookstore to read books, to go on field trips. Last summer, she took Bing Bing to see the sea by train. Sister Xia said that although ice-cold legs are not yet able to walk, he should, like a normal child, go to see the world and experience all kinds of freshness and beauty brought by the world. I admire Sister Xia more and more, a thin and thin woman, how strong she must be to be so calm and optimistic in the difficult test day after day. Once I couldn't help asking her that when she encountered something difficult, she never felt sad and resentful. She said, "Why not? When I first got divorced, I almost got depressed. I felt that God was so unfair to me that he gave me a defective son and an irresponsible husband. At that time, I. I wash my face with tears every day. I can't eat and can't sleep. I think it's no fun to be alive. But I cried, my ice also cried, I lost weight, I was depressed, my ice fell ill, I caught a cold, vomited, and had a high fever. I was so worried that I had no time to immerse myself in my troubles. The illness of Bing Bing came fiercely, but the good one was very slow, and when he finally got better, I suddenly had a feeling of gratitude.
I think, as long as my son is fine, what am I not satisfied with? I think my mother is old and Bing Bing is not well. This family depends on me. I can't fall. I have to live well. Later, I was busy opening a shop, making money to support my family, treating Bing Bing, and making Bing Bing's life more colorful. When I was busy, I didn't care about resentment and sorrow. " It is not easy to achieve no sorrow and no resentment. This is the calm and calm that comes after the polish of life. I said to Sister Xia, "you are amazing." Sister Xia smiled and said to me, "it's no big deal. I just figured it out. I think since God has made such an arrangement for our mother and mother, we have to catch it and live it day by day." No matter what happens, resentment is useless, and sorrow does not help. A sad face is also a day, smiling is also a day, why not be happy a little bit. I hope Bing Bing is an optimistic child, then I will be an optimistic mother. Slowly, I found that if I live happily, something good will happen. My shop business is getting better and better, and his icy upper limbs are becoming more and more flexible. he is sane, laughs, and likes to paint. Although he can't walk yet, I think he will be able to leave someday if he insists on doing rehabilitation training. I am now giving Bingbing a contact school. Although Bingbing can't walk, he can take care of a lot of things by himself. I hope he goes to school like other children. " I took a look at the Bingbing next to him. He was drawing intently and his fingers were very flexible. This is all the result of Sister Xia's training for him all the time. Sister Xia also looked at her son with appreciation and doting. "how is Bing Bing's father now?" I thought of the irresponsible man. "he remarried, gave birth to a daughter, and was a healthy child." She said calmly, there was no resentment in her tone. "Sister Xia, you should find someone else to live with, too." I think such a nice woman should have a responsible man to love her. "well, I have no objection to starting a family now," she said with a smile. But in my case, the average man is scared off at the sight of it. I have to wait, wait for fate, and one day God assigns me a man who can withstand things. " Yes, she is a woman who can handle things, and only a man who can handle things is worthy of her. "I hope this man will show up soon." I said. Yesterday, received a phone call from Sister Xia, she said happily: "to tell you a big good news, I have contacted the school for Bingbing, Bingbing can go to school." "Great!" I am sincerely happy for her and Bingbing. "Today, I'm going to take Bing Bing to choose schoolbags and school supplies." She said excitedly. "I'll go with you." I was infected by her happiness. When I went downstairs, I saw the two women sitting on the electric tricycle, smiling happily in the sun. I took a deep breath and felt that the air became sweet in their smiles. Life sometimes gives people bitterness, but there are always people who do not immerse themselves in bitterness but brew bitterness into sweetness with a pair of skillful hands and a brave heart.