My friend, don't make yourself look so sad.
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knows that I am not perfect.
I give everything I can.
"Don't make yourself look so sad."
an old friend used to tell me that.
at that time, just at the time of graduation, the whole person was jingling with poverty.
if you can't find a suitable job you like,
you have to work a few corresponding jobs.
at that time, I felt particularly miserable when I saw everything.
has always been a very negative energy state.
I've been complaining to my friends about what to do. I'm going to graduate and I don't have a job. I'm poor.
I have to endure the job I want to go to, but I don't like the job I can go to.
then this friend told me not to make myself look so sad.
it's like pouring a basin of refreshing water on my bitter head.
always complain in the trough, always use negative emotions to excuse your predicament, but do nothing.
people who haven't tried have no right to complain.
perhaps compared with many people, their difficulties are simply negligible, but they seem to be insurmountable.
I have a college classmate who has always been very good and does a lot of work. He always wants to start a business but doesn't have enough money. He is like a headless fly. Since graduation, he has been saying that he is unwilling to commit himself to work for others in the company. It has been nearly half a year since I graduated, and he still doesn't have a serious career and doesn't know what he wants to do.
sometimes we overestimate ourselves, so the more impetuous we are, the higher our morale will be.
No one likes to take a shift, and no one is committed to the ability of others.
I sometimes hear my sisters complain about their boss, saying that they have no skills and are particularly stingy. I used to share a common enemy with them, but I think as a good friend, I should give them advice and cold water at the right time.
then I said, no matter how incompetent they think they are, they can be chosen to be superior to you, and that has some advantages worth talking about. Instead of complaining, you might as well put down the mirror you always look at work, put aside unnecessary small talk during working hours, and work harder.
sometimes it's not someone else's fault.
it's your bitterness.
it's not easy for everyone, not just you.
I admire a girl. At that time, she was a student of another school and a friend of a friend. I had dinner with him, and my friend was chasing her at that time, so I also called that girl.
when she first met, she was not very talkative, but she always laughed.
I am particularly fond of such people. I don't get close to you, I'm not self-acquainted, I'm not self-righteous, and I'm not cold and aggressive.
she feels very comfortable, because she doesn't talk nonsense and with this reserve and restraint,
I think she should be a girl with a story.
it's not convenient for me to inquire about anything. I wait for my friend to tell me himself.
later a friend said that the girl's family was not very good. After her mother died, her father went out to find all kinds of women to take home and asked her for money. She has left her hometown in Sichuan for a long time and doesn't want to go back. She earns all her living expenses and has done all the hard work. Now she has opened a bakery in Wangjing, and her life is very good.
I said to my friend, Oh, my God, I really can't see it.
he said yes because she never complains about her grievances but makes people feel more distressed.
so I want to be with her, protect her, help her.
she must have spent a lot of days that others can't imagine.
she must have cried many times alone.
people who laugh a lot may not always be plain sailing.
people who have a little trouble will always be like trumpets for fear that others will not know their bitterness.
so a calm person will make people feel quite secure.
those who are bitter are in their hearts, but those who are
are in their mouths.
so, my friend, the reason why I am a friend is to make you better.
Don't make yourself look so sad, and sometimes you have to throw cold water on yourself when you're not doing the right thing.
you can first see if you are trying to do something, for something you love.
if you complain about unfairness because of your laziness, I'm sorry, I can't give you this hug.
if you are really tired, also tell me that you are tired, I will understand.
because of the unspeakable suffering, it's all written on your face, but you're still saying it's okay.
because strong people are always sarcastic, and people who don't want to bother others are kind.
they carry what they can carry, and they will always be overwhelmed one day.
so when you want to cry,
Do you wish to be a Cinderella in a high quality but cheap elegant prom dresses? The easy way with the highest high value.
then come to my arms.