"would you please stop talking and there will be no one?"

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Hebe asked me: why does he only reply with one expression every time I send him Wechat?

We have a huge selection of cuts and styles to choose from.

Hebe has known him for almost two months. From the beginning, the boys took the initiative, and then Hebe relied on this way of chatting. In the first month, Hebe said to us, "I seem to like him."

in fact, their chat records are nothing special, even ordinary, that is, when things have happened around them recently, sometimes there may be two quips, and then good night every night. It is this continuous good night every night that makes Hebe possessed.

later, Hebe became more active than before, actively looking for topics, actively commenting on the moments he just posted, and asking him out to see a movie. At first, two people can be very happy to date alone, and then the boy will deliberately bring one or two friends, and then plead that he is very busy.

Hebe is puzzled, and what is even more puzzling is that in the subsequent chat, boys often reply with only one expression.

some people are really cold when they chat, except for a long reply to something urgent, and don't expect him to give you more of his usual greetings. After all, everyone is so busy, with so many things to do every day, there is no time to talk to people who don't care.

when I get up every morning, there are more than a dozen unread messages on Wechat, some working, some replying, some friends, some others. I always go through what everyone sends me first and reply one by one according to my priorities. Sometimes when I finish posting on moments, someone will send a private message to me saying, "Why haven't you replied to the Wechat this morning?"

then I was very embarrassed.

but I also understand myself and those who fail to reply to Wechat in time, because that's the way I am. anyone has a priority in my heart. If you are not so important to me, or what you say is not so important to me, I will put you in the last reply. Sometimes it is common to be too busy to forget to reply.

so those who respond with only one expression or none at all don't care about you or your message at all.

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when you like others, others will not necessarily give you the same degree of love.

when Hebe had an affair with that boy, she would browse the boy's circle of friends, flip through comments, and click into the circle of friends in the comments almost every day. That's what she cares about a person. She wants to know all the details of his life and want to participate in all his stories.

when some people like someone, they often have the illusion that the other person likes them as well. As the vulgar saying goes, there are three delusions that are most likely to appear in the world: someone knocks at the door, the cell phone is ringing, and he likes me.

most of the time this illusion will create a gap in your relationship, and you will be sad, sad, and unwilling. You know in your heart that this is a must-lose bet, and you are just lying to yourself.

that's why someone wants to talk to someone they like again and again, even if he doesn't reply every word, the reply is only perfunctory; that's why some people can't figure out why the other person is silent and always find all kinds of excuses for each other.

sometimes we can take a step back and see the relationship clearly.

one person exerts too much effort, while the other person avoids the important point and takes it lightly. The two people are not equal at all in this relationship, so one person is waiting hard while the other person is unaware of it.

that expression speaks for itself.

shows that he doesn't want to spend time with you, that your message is not that important to him, and that you should stop being stupid and let go.