You wait for me in the future. I'll be here soon.
May we all break the shackles of time, confident and ambitious, calm and crazy.
it is an old truth that life blooms because of labor.
but I, my life is not heavy enough,
it is far above the action,
at the cordial top of the world.
| Rambo bad blood
1.
at the end of last year, I went to a party with friends.
the man in the group called out a lot of his friends, and his friends called a lot of his friends over, which finally turned into a big game.
at that party, I met an editor, Capricorn, who shared a constellation with my male friend.
Capricorn attaches great importance to career and love. Because of my affection for Capricorn, I talked to him.
this editor is in 1985, in his early thirties, and is already the father of a pair of children.
people who know Capricorn should know that sometimes Capricorn can be very rational and they will make some decisive choices in life planning. He married his wife the year he graduated. Classmates of the same class but from different schools met during his sophomore internship. He said that love let nature take its course without planning, but in his career, he would make a plan for himself every year. At the beginning of each year, he wrote his plan for this year as a letterhead in a book and opened it at the end of the year. Every time he found that what he had done this year was much faster than what he had expected at the beginning of the year. I was very impressed by what he said, so I got a little faster every year. When I was 31 years old, a lot of things were done ahead of time.
his wife was also at the scene that day, telling us about his side as a new good husband, and she was shocked that most of the time, the success of others was one step ahead of us in planning. When we were in a hurry to catch up, others were already drinking coffee and waiting.
she said that he usually contributed articles in the newspaper, and he still had time to accompany her to chat with her children every day, and the good nighttime every day was fascinating. His official account also needs to be updated every day. He gets up on time at five o'clock every morning, updates the official account to seven o'clock, and then starts to listen to the news, make breakfast for the children and kiss his wife, every day. He said the other day that this habit made him two hours faster than others every day, and over time, he did not know how much better his state of mind was than others.
A lot of times, I think it's hard to get ahead.
because I give myself too many excuses and excuses, I make excuses for my laziness.
do not realize that when they sleep in, others are already busy with more meaningful things.
A lazy life does not mean laziness, but a quick plan that makes everything seem extraordinarily relaxed and flexible.
2.
my mother has a friend who is just 35 years old this year.
similarly, she has always been a planned person.
people who are one step ahead always have more choices and live younger than their peers.
because this choice gives them a broader front, there are few barriers in front of them, just as they are open and boundless because of speed, and there are more opportunities and directions.
her life plan is very clear. The university was admitted to the Beijing Fashion Institute. After falling in love with design in junior high school, she immediately went to study painting; then she went to Milan for two years and came back to run her clothing brand with a simple and elegant style, just like her people; and then got married. Her husband is five years older than her, her career is successful, and her marriage is as smooth as her career.
she gives me a sense of elegance, mostly because she gives herself a lot of room to play.
any opportunity to smell the breath faster than others, because it is early, so there are no boundaries and obstacles to give full play to their abilities.
she has a long-term vision and is never limited to the petty profits in front of her.
she opened a cafe in Wudaoying in Beijing five years ago. At that time, the rent was NT $5,000 a month. She kept an eye on the land and signed it for five years. Now she earns more than NT $20,000. At the same time, she also takes a very long-term view in many areas, finding a fulcrum for her ambition before and stability after her thirties.
sometimes we hinder ourselves and can't fight a lot. the reason may be that we are not one step ahead, so we don't have the boundless space to develop, or at least let us drive.
3.
if you are a planned person,
then you will feel that your life will be like a dripping bearing.
there is nothing to jam.
all the madness and brave profligacy made us try something new when we were young.
when we earn the first bucket of gold and lose the first bucket of gold,
accumulate rare experience, and suffer from limitations and limitations.
but it makes our foundation more stable.
all the hills that are insurmountable at the moment
are connected to thousands of hills with broad horizons and no boundaries.
I remember that in the last year of my junior and senior year, Ma Jiajia, my new graduating sister, opened a sunny sex toy store from the gate of our school. On the inconspicuous side street behind our school, do you think she was trying to make money right now? it's impossible because her vision never has a boundary, so she has been playing a big game of chess from the very beginning. Until now, she has opened her shop in Sanlitun. To become an entrepreneur, to improve their height, again and again, the boundary will be farther and farther away.
the things that are most likely to waste time
the important things are decided after repeatedly bumping into the wall.
know what you can't get through and what's worth taking.
when we need to make decisions, we know which time is no longer necessary to waste and which is worth paying attention to.
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