When you reach middle age, please live a cost-effective life.

who has not been confused in youth, who has not had anxious middle age?

there are parents to take care of and children to raise.

making money is getting harder and harder, and there are more and more places to spend money.

doing the heaviest work and the latest shift, when I woke up, the pressure was still coming like a tsunami.

some netizens have asked: how to live a good life?

there is an answer: when you reach middle age, please live a cost-effective life.

01

Room: leave fewer objects in exchange for more enjoyment

some studies have shown that 80% of the items around us are not used, and only 20% are commonly used.

I always think that I will use it one day, but I always think it's a pity that we are competing for space with things.

hoarding more and more things distracts everyone and consumes our energy.

in many cases, the inner pressure and the narrowness of the external space will form a great sense of oppression.

makes us lose our temper for no reason, forcing people to flee.

Sister Wang wants to take the professional title, but she has endless work during the day and endless housework at night, and Sister Wang is very anxious.

simply, she threw her children and housework to her husband, rented a house temporarily and moved out.

my new home has only a wardrobe, a table and a bed, and a few necessities of life.

instead of worrying about matching clothes, you have more time to read;

it doesn't take long to clean up the room, but more free time;

things you need are easy to find, but not nervous, but better.

Sister Wang fell in love with this minimalist life.

when she got home, she turned the house around completely.

unworn clothes, shoes and socks, unnecessary things, notebooks, storage bags, expired skin care products for a long time.

throw it away, give it away.

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when the wardrobe is idle, the heart brightens; the sundries become less, and people relax.

looking at the neat home, Sister Wang seems to be reborn and in high spirits.

some people say: "A lot of things that are lost, such as taking off the burden, make you feel comfortable."

A room with an inch of land and gold should not be filled with extra objects, which makes it difficult for us to turn around.

you might as well have a break-up to get rid of useless things and clear your mind of distractions.

the short years of life, let yourself get away from the trivial housework, raise fish, grow flowers, take a walk, make friends.

leave fewer objects in exchange for more enjoyment.

02

work: trade for greater achievements with less personal leave

there is a saying: "if there are many buds, if they do not bloom, they should be cut off and let it focus on blooming a flower."

"people, too, must give up something in order to let their only thing bloom graciously."

it is true.

multiple planing pits are not as good as deep digging wells.

Qiangzi is the brightest of our friends. He can always smell business opportunities, but he ends hastily every time.

he has sold clothing, opened a restaurant, sold home textiles, worked as home improvement, worked in logistics, and ran transportation.

Today, people are still floating like duckweed in middle age.

did not earn much money, did not lose much, tossed about, more than ten years of youth lost, but did not leave any family business.

another friend, Wang Tao, is diametrically opposed to Hadron.

at first, Wang Tao worked in an advertising company.

when he was born halfway, he followed his master to install layouts and house numbers during the day, and studied design hard at night.

Wang Tao can bear hardships and is willing to learn. Over a long period of time, he has mastered a series of processes and techniques of advertising, and has become an expert in the industry.

now, the apprentice has become the boss of an advertising company.

Wang Tao said: "after working in this industry for a long time, from strangers to customers, from customers to friends, word of mouth, a lot of business will naturally come to us."

most of the time, we always want to have too much, but we can't grasp anything; we always want to be in a hurry, but we are always anxious.

instead of looking everywhere for a way out, but repeatedly hitting a brick wall, it is better to go along the familiar road;

instead of looking for directions everywhere and dabbling in them, it is better to go to the end in the direction in front of them.

Faber also said: "try to focus your energy on one focus, just like a lens."

focus on one goal and dig deep into a field.

what accumulates bit by bit is the profession, and what precipitates over time is the network.

this is the power of concentration, and this is the charm of diligence.

in this way, we can exchange less time for greater achievements.

03

making friends: having three or two bosom friends in the heart is better than thousands of contacts

Yi Shu said:

"people in the city seem to be glamorous, but in fact, they all hide loopholes. High-ranking friends are full, and guests come like clouds, but there may not be two or three who can really talk to each other. "

when I was young, when I was a nodding acquaintance, I asked for contact information and added Wechat friends.

think that this is making friends and making connections.

A few years later, when I opened my mobile phone contact, many names became unfamiliar and could no longer be remembered.

when people reach middle age, although they know many people, they can only get in touch with them; they accumulate a lot of friends, and only one or two can talk to each other.

when there are not many friends, it lies in essence and sincerity.

netizens @ shell have shared their stories.

before leaving, she was the department manager of a company. She knew many people and had a wide range of horizons.

there are acquaintances everywhere, and there is always someone to help you when you encounter something.

later, she tendered her resignation to the company because of too much pressure at work and a tendency to be depressed.

after returning home, while actively treating, she followed the changes in the market and thought that she could return to work one day.

sadly, she called a friend she knew at work, who either said she was busy or made a few polite words, and then hung up in a hurry.

she clearly felt the indifference and falsehood of the other party....

those dark days were accompanied by two friends who grew up together.

recall the stories of her childhood, comfort her, encourage her, and accompany her out of the haze.

once leaving office made her see a lot clearly, and an illness sobered her a lot.

A friend is the one you forget when you are busy, but think of when you are alone.

is the one who hides in the distance to bless you when you are brilliant, but gives you a hand when you need it.

hundreds of phone numbers in mobile phones and thousands of friends added on Wechat are just acquaintances, not all friends.

instead of spending time making friends, it is better to always think about old friends;

instead of forcing yourself into an uncomfortable circle, it is better to chat comfortably with a bosom friend or two.

because even if you don't say anything, he understands everything.

A friend is like a big wave scouring the sand, but he who is sincere will stay at the end.

04

when people reach middle age and lose their yearning for a luxurious life, they realize that it is just a burden of life;

half of their life has passed, and only after seeing through the pursuit of fame and gain can they know that plain and simple is more real and permanent.

in life, throw away useless things, the impulse to shop, the habit of staying up late, people who want to escape, people who haven't been in touch for a long time.

there is no easy way to go in your career. If there is, focus is the shortcut.

socially, don't waste too much time pushing cups and making preparations, leaving some time for family and friends.

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