What do we talk about when we get married?

Marriage is a trivial matter, yes, but, to sum up, there are still some big key words. The wife's mind is very complicated, nine twists and eighteen twists and turns, but the husband likes intuitive understanding, WYSIWYG. When two people form a community of life, it is inevitable that there are some misunderstandings and misunderstandings. So communication is very important. my wife got angry and didn't want to go to a very important party. For what reason? The wife may say: so tired, so troublesome, so earthy, so annoying, so hypocritical, so boring. The N-th power of complaining. In fact, my wife's heart may be thinking: how annoying, the new pair of jimmy can not match my black dress. What the husband thinks in his heart is: shit, she dislikes me.

the man is very good at grasping key words, and the woman talks a lot, and he immediately picks out the one that hurts the most. And women are very good at duplicity. If women are always so to the point, concise and straightforward, then women may say a ton less every day. If there is a contradiction, everyone will vent their discontent in time, find out the cause, apologize in time if there is a mistake, and resolve it in time if there is a misunderstanding. After the misunderstanding was resolved, XXOO was legal and healthy. the premise of communication is another key word: sincerity. since there have been contradictions, misunderstandings, and need to communicate, then there can be no more misunderstandings in communication, so at this time, what is most necessary is to be honest with each other. In the end, what is in mind, how the misunderstanding is caused, it is clear and clear. Don't really think that in Qiongyao opera, the men keep on "you listen to me to explain" and the women keep on "I don't listen, I don't listen". When communicating, the husband /wife only needs to say "you listen to me to explain", and the wife /husband will ok when they are all ears. After that, it doesn't matter whether it's a fight or a cry or a cry, because the bad feelings have been eliminated. If the heart is still very unhappy, but for the sake of family harmony, national unity and grievance, it is not to endure humiliation, it is called insincerity. Because sometimes once a small pimple is produced, if you don't eliminate it in time, it will ferment into a big pimple, so both sides should be careful to speak in the future, with less happiness and more trouble. this pimple is communicated for an important reason: tolerance. people's tolerance and magnanimity are most obvious in marriage. It is too sb for husband and wife to be respectful and respectful to each other. The most real state is to take a shit and put P in an unrestrained way. The immortal has come down to earth, the prince has dismounted, and everyone has to talk about the words of a novel every day. Sometimes there is a deviation in the central idea of a certain paragraph or two words, and it is normal that the words do not reach the meaning. There is absolutely no need to cling to it and raise it to a higher plane of principle. it is the duty of men to be magnanimous, and the quality of women to be magnanimous. there are some mistakes, so forget it if you don't make an apology next time. There is no need to hold on to it and affect the harmonious relationship. So at this time, quarrelling is not a quarrel, is talking about communication, is to adjust each other's state of mind and behavior words, to cultivate a tacit understanding between each other.

A tacit understanding arises, and trust follows. Trust is the foundation of marriage, but trust is also cultivated through marriage. In the first 20 years, each had its own living environment, and all of a sudden, the familiar environment joined each other and joined each other's relatives and friends, inevitably some maladjustment, some conflict, some confusion, but while constantly exploring the unknown future, each other's care, support and companionship contributed to the production of a chemical in the heart, that is, trust. There is an idea: trust is very difficult to do, you have to cultivate trust, not overnight, but to destroy trust as long as one thing breaks one's promise. In fact, the business relationship may be like this, you have to cultivate a long-term customer, pre-sale, in-sale, after-sale follow-up, perfect, for fear of making mistakes. But the relationship between husband and wife, it is mistakes that generate trust. Trust grows through making mistakes, correcting them, making mistakes again, and correcting them again. This kind of trust is not easily eroded by being late, forgetting anniversaries, missing parents' meetings, nor is it easily destroyed by ambiguity with others. This trust comes from the inner understanding of each other, from "what I think, you know!" Marriage is a project that everyone has done for the first time. If you all have a partner who is married for the first time, please say to him /her: please take care of me when you get married for the first time.

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