Thinking questions before marriage

basic question & nbsp; Why are we getting married? & nbsp; as husband and wife, what do we want in life? & nbsp; what do you think we will do in 30 or 40 years? & nbsp; do you drink frequently? & nbsp; have you ever hit anyone? & nbsp; do you think it's important to be loyal to each other? Why is it important or unimportant? & nbsp; do you have a criminal record? & nbsp; would you like to do things like changing toilet paper in the bathroom? & nbsp;

self-image & nbsp; how do you describe yourself? & nbsp; what do you think of you? & nbsp; do I get jealous easily? & nbsp; do I have trust problems or disregard a sense of security? & how important is nbsp; being affirmed to me? & nbsp; will I treat other people's compliments? & nbsp; what's your favorite language? & nbsp; do you think I'm a good listener? & nbsp; do you think it is important to understand a person's physical and mental health history? & nbsp;

language of love & nbsp; 's affirmative words such as how attractive your partner looks or how delicious her dinner is … These words will help build your lover's self-image or confidence. & nbsp; time together some partners like to express their love by spending time together, doing things together, or focusing on each other. If your partner likes this way of expressing love, turn off the TV immediately and give her wholehearted attention. Gift-nbsp; giving gifts is a common culture of people. You don't have to spend a lot of money to send a strong love message. If a partner who enjoys receiving gifts very much does not receive gifts on birthdays or important anniversaries, or if her partner has never given her a gift, she will feel neglected or unloved. The act of serving finds out how you can best do something for your partner, which takes time and creativity. These acts of service, such as vacuuming, feeding birds, planting gardens, etc., need to be done happily as gifts of love to each other. & nbsp;

physical contact-nbsp; sometimes satisfies this need simply by caressing her back, holding her hand, or with a gentle kiss on her cheek. & nbsp;

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Family background & nbsp; what was your childhood like? & nbsp; is your family full of affection? & nbsp; do you think we will have problems with your family when we go home for vacation? & nbsp; what values do you have from your family that you can bring to our little home? Nbsp; what do you like /dislike about your family? Nbsp; what do you like /dislike about my family? Nbsp; what do you like /dislike about your parent's marriage? What do you like /dislike about my parents' marriage?

Family matters & nbsp; can you clean the bathroom? & nbsp; how do we assign family affairs? & nbsp; how do you want us to spend our leisure time? & nbsp; how do you want to spend your non-working days? & nbsp; do you think we should do one thing together? & nbsp; can we each pursue our interests? & nbsp; do you need time alone? & nbsp; how would you feel if I wanted to spend the night with my friends from time to time? & nbsp; how can we guarantee the time we spend together? & nbsp;

money & nbsp; can we talk about money? & nbsp; has made money, are you used to saving it or spending it? & nbsp; do you want to have a budget? & nbsp; should we have a joint account or a separate account, or both? Nbsp; who is responsible for paying the family bill in time? & nbsp; do you think it is necessary or luxury to go to the cinema or vacation every year? & nbsp; how much do we owe and what are our assets? & nbsp; where will our money go? & nbsp; what are our financial objectives? & nbsp; do you have any outstanding fines or debts? & nbsp; what are our plans for buying a house? & nbsp; do we all know where the important financial information is put? & nbsp;

Sex have we had sex before? & nbsp; if there is, will we repent and forgive each other? & nbsp; if there is, have we done medical tests to make sure we are not infected with STDs or AIDS? & nbsp; what do you think of these problems? [step=8] Children & nbsp; do you want to have children? & nbsp; are we going to have a baby? How long after nbsp; 's marriage are we going to have children? & nbsp; what kind of parent do you think you will be? & nbsp; what is your parenting philosophy? & nbsp; do we need to stay at home alone after we have children? & nbsp; what kind of protective measures should we take if we want to postpone or avoid having children? & nbsp; what do you think of abortion? & nbsp; do you have a child? [step=9] decide & nbsp; how do we make decisions together? & nbsp; are we all willing to face difficulties, or will we try our best to avoid conflicts? Do you think there are problems in our relationship that need to be dealt with before marriage? & nbsp; can we handle conflicts? & nbsp; what's the difference between us? & nbsp; do you think our differences will cause problems in our marriage? & nbsp; do you want me to change? & nbsp; can we all forgive each other? & nbsp;