The most structured way to deal with an accident
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Bernard once said: good methods enable us to make better use of our talents, while bad methods may hinder our talents.
how a person handles it often shows the size of his pattern.
people with large patterns can show no hurry or impatience even if they encounter big problems.
even if the road ahead is full of thorns and thorns, you can be calm, flexible, don't go to a dead end, and harvest a wonderful life.
although you have encountered something bad, you can let go and be bearish, see through without saying anything, keep away from the troubles of right and wrong, and let yourself live comfortably.
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learn to be calm
Dickens said in bleak House: no matter what happens, be calm and calm.
calm and calm when something happens, for a person, it is not only the embodiment of ideological cultivation and character cultivation, but also the reflection of working ability and talent.
A man's life is bound to shine if he can remain calm in amazement, stable in anger, and awake in anger.
when confronted with unexpected problems, calmness is especially important. Only by thinking calmly can we help us change our difficulties and lead to success.
there is such a story.
Sima Guang was as steady as an adult at the age of seven. He loved it very much when he heard the teacher explain "Zuo's Spring and Autumn". After school, he told his family what he had learned, and he immediately understood the meaning of "Zuo's Spring and Autumn." from then on, he couldn't put books in his hand, even to the point of forgetting hunger and thirst, cold and hot.
once, when he was playing with his friends in the backyard, a child climbed onto the big tank and fell into the water.
as soon as the other children saw that something had happened, they gave up on him and ran away, but Sima Guang picked up a big stone from the ground and hit it hard against the water tank. The water gushed out and the child was saved.
it was precisely because Sima Guang was calm that he saved his companions from danger. Han Xin worked hard to become a general because he was calm. Zhuge Liang calmly set out empty city plans to save Shu from water and fire.
in the face of tribulations, we need to keep a cool head.
overcoming all difficulties requires an indomitable will and a calm head.
growing up, there will be ups and downs and setbacks, but this is not necessarily a bad thing. If we can think from another angle and deal with them calmly, they will inevitably become a precious wealth in our lives.
dealing with things calmly can not only reduce the breeding of contradictions, but also enable us to achieve twice the result with half the effort with the least amount of time and energy.
02
know how to be flexible
the only constant in the world is change. The external environment and ourselves will be changed by some factors.
there are exceptions to everything. If there is a special situation, if we cannot make corresponding adjustments in time, according to the changes in the environment and other factors, adapt to the development of changes, blindly adhere to our goals, blindly adhere to, do not know how to adapt, a path to black, is doing useless work, will only allow ourselves to suffer setbacks.
only when you know how to change things in time, can you have a new world and vision.
our life is a process of constantly correcting and shaping ourselves. Just like kneading clay figurines, you need to know what you want to squeeze yourself into. For those who want to squeeze you crooked, you must make great efforts to straighten yourself up.
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most of the time, when we set a goal, it is set according to the local reality at that time and some subjective wishes and other related conditions.
with the change of time, reality, life experience and other conditions, it is most important to know how to be flexible.
on our way of life, the direction is wrong, it is not terrible, what is terrible is that we stubbornly go to the dark road, do not know how to be flexible, and go further and further on the wrong road, things will only get worse, or even miss success in the end.
when you encounter problems, properly listen to the opinions of others, don't cling to your own opinions, give up what you should give up, insist on what you should give up, learn to plan, and know how to be flexible is the key to solving the problem and the beginning of success.
03
feel relieved
as the saying goes: if the heart cares, there are complaints everywhere; if the heart is relaxed, it is spring all the time.
only then do you know that nine out of ten things in the world are bad, there are very few people who can really treat each other, and there are very few things that can make your wishes come true.
if you have to worry about it, you have to win or lose. There is no one or thing in the world that can satisfy you.
people live all their lives, living is nothing more than seeking peace of mind, why quarrel with themselves and make their hearts tired.
as the old saying goes: if the heart is one inch wide, the road will be one foot wide.
when people live in the world, they can live freely only by letting go of unsatisfactory things and looking down on the bad things.
if the heart does not move, the wind can do nothing. If you don't get hurt, the years will be safe.
Don't take things seriously, let alone entanglement, serious life, less fastidious, more relaxed and indifferent.
in this life, people should be relieved. When they encounter grievances, just smile. Why be too serious? when you meet people who can't get along, just stay away, and you don't have to care.
Life is too short to regret. Learn to let it go and don't leave a minute to the people or things that bring you pain.
Life is not so complicated, it doesn't matter losing, it's just experience, it doesn't matter failure, it's just experience, when something happens, deal with it calmly, when the road is blocked, when you go in the wrong direction, you learn to be flexible, and when you are unhappy, just try to let go, let yourself go, and let yourself live comfortably.
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