The life of my sister-in-law

I asked my sister-in-law to be in a hurry, but I accidentally met a good sister-in-law. The reason why she is good is not how special she is professionally and technically, but that she is a good person. The so-called good people are not the hard-working, low-looking rural migrant workers portrayed in TV dramas, who seem to throw out a heart to give orders to others. No, I mean, she's fine as a person.

because there was a temporary physical condition of the old man, the original plan changed. I was a babysitter found by an intermediary on the birth bed the day after the C-section. Probably according to the rule, I asked my sister-in-law to meet and see if she had a good temper. So Mr. Liu came the next day.

calling her "teacher" is not out of popular politeness, but it makes sense for you to put it on her, at least as far as my first impression is concerned. It was sauna day at the end of June. I was lying in bed wondering how to get to the bathroom ten steps away, whether to push the wheelchair or move it slowly, but the first question was how to get up first because the ligament at the root of my left leg was broken.

when Miss Liu came in, she saw me grinning and trying to get up. She quickly came to help me and asked, "what's the matter with you?" The accent is from the northeast, 40 to 50 years old, not small, about 1.7 meters, the figure is also strong, looks like a person who can do physical work, the whole body is neatly tidied up and down, the short hair is neatly hot, the chiffon shirt and black skirt with broken flowers, a pair of light shoes on the feet, is an individual face, and a third of the teacher's appearance.

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I have never seen my sister-in-law. I don't know what she should look like, but I fell in love with her cleanliness at first sight. In addition to being clean, she is also quite in control, and she can see that she is a strong and thoughtful person, which is also the basic characteristic of a capable person.

at that time, there was no one in charge in my family, and the old man was not physically fit. First of all, I lost the energy to discuss everything. My husband always felt that he did everything and carried it all by himself, but he could not bear it and dragged me into it. In addition, when a man took care of the children, no matter how experienced he was, he would also make efforts, and he would have no idea when he encountered specific things. Although the price is not cheap, at this moment, it is generally appropriate, so I signed a contract and went into the house.

up to now, I have to say that I am comfortable with my sister-in-law's money this month. Even when my maternity leave is almost out of help, the first choice in mind for a babysitter is Miss Liu, although her price as a babysitter is also extremely high.

Miss Liu was not satisfied with the room when she entered the door: the kitchen is too greasy, the bathroom is unsanitary, the bedding in the bedroom needs to be so thick, and the table is in the way!

after a lot of trouble, I took my sister-in-law's money and did the cleaning work first. a strong person who loves cleanliness broke out at any time no matter where he went. He tidied up the child and worked hard for three days. The kitchen is bright and bright-- it's just not my kitchen anymore. Everything has been changed to her favorite display mode. I've lost half my life. I don't have the energy to worry about it with her. Let her be comfortable. But the old man and the gentleman couldn't help it and mutter to me, and I just said, "you can do it."

Miss Liu is very confident in taking care of the children, which suits me very much. Her confidence, of course, comes not from her vocational training, but from being a mother of two. The newborn is soft, the bones of his neck are not yet hard, and people who are not confident and inexperienced hold them in their arms, and they simply do not know how to deal with him except for a useless love. Teacher Liu is not, can not see the superfluous literary and artistic emotions, that is, quick hands and feet, breast-feeding, bathing, touching, massage, sleeping, wiping shit and urine, and then going to cook lunch.

the biggest problem for new mothers is not that there is nothing they can do about it, but that they don't know whether it will work or not, so it is necessary to have a more confident person to make a judgment and tell themselves bluntly what to do if not. Teacher Liu also agrees with me on this point.

one day my son didn't poop. I was a little anxious. She came to have a look and said, "No, no, no. Looking at me flipping through books and rubbing my son's stomach, she picked it up and left, saying, "Don't mess with my big baby." It was very natural, it amused me and relaxed me. On the other hand, her habits such as not being late, changing clean household clothes, not taking a bath at the employer's house, not eating pregnant women's meals, not eating meat dishes, and so on, seem to have been learned in vocational training, and it is difficult for employers to wait on them. there are a lot of people who pay money to use others as mules and horses.

Miss Liu also has some shortcomings, such as cooking too oily, too salty, and too much. I can hardly eat anything in the month, and I am constantly forced to eat, almost forming retaliatory anorexia. It is unbearably hot, and you can't turn on the air conditioner, so the heavy taste of the food is even more annoying. But a strong person like her was soon frustrated with me because I had to send her lunar meal back without moving at all. she was very discouraged and secretly asked the old man several times if your mother was not easy to serve.

difficult to serve, there is a second layer, I have very little to say. It is also a character, but also physical discomfort, but also the hormone is wrong, but also a forehead and the old man and her husband's lawsuit, I have almost nothing to say. Asked, it was also, um, except to see the child with a bit of joy, usually did not say a word. So she's a little wrong about me. But she soon realized that I was this character, and she had nothing to do with her, so she was not nervous. Plus she was talkative, so I could listen, so she was able to talk to me.

she is originally from the northeast. I forgot exactly where. It was about a very small place. The first husband ate, drank, gambled, and beat his wife. She gave birth to a son by cesarean section. Her husband drank with people at home like nothing, and never entered the door of the hospital. It broke her heart and remembered it all her life, and I still don't forget it after so many years of divorce. Later, I couldn't live any longer. I got divorced and decisively threw my son to my husband to raise.

I was surprised to ask why, and she said that he raised this son for nothing, and he had to come to me sooner or later, or mine. Sure enough, her son came to Qingdao from the northeast to look for her at the age of 17. At that time, sheIn the second marriage, although the husband was not bad, he was a loser. He stayed at home all day without making money and kept staring at her like a vinegar bottle. She was strong at that time, opened a shop, poured out some fruits and vegetables, and came home early and late, not to mention tiring. Life was stumbling along with such an unworthy thing, but the 40-year-old had a good idea and decisively gave birth to a daughter.

the daughter gave birth to half of her health, but according to her own words, "the wisest thing I have ever done in my life is to give birth to Xiao Lei." With the eldest son and the younger daughter, the loser husband soon became an encumbrance. If she wanted to leave, the other party would not leave, so she fought, and she had nothing to lose. She made the old man cry after crying. If she says she won't leave, she won't leave. I'll live with mine.

so he moved out, rented a house, raised a daughter, worked and made money again, married a wife for his son, waited on his wife and son, raised his grandson, and his daughter went to junior high school. In the middle of this, I met my present companion, a bus driver, who seemed to be a nice person, and she didn't have anything to worry about. It was said that the companion was because she was not divorced, so she did not marry this one, and the two lived and lived like this.

it would be hilarious if the story was told by Mr. Liu. When it comes to how she tore the loser off the stairs, her pants were torn, and he cried so shyly and angrily, she giggled with delight, saying that he still wanted to beat me to death in Mahler Gobi, the son of a bitch, beaming with gestures, and the description of the location of the props in the specific scene, which made us laugh too.

speaking of this and now, say that you have finally found a home. She said not to mention it. After sleeping with me, he wanted to run away and refused to admit it when he heard that I was not divorced. Nice try! Who's going to eat that? We asked, what's the next step? She talked about the plan, it seems that she should first leave with the other side, and then according to the policy of being single and raising two children, can she apply for low-rent housing or comfortable housing, and then marry this one when she gets the house?

I was surprised to ask: still, tie the knot! You haven't had enough! She was even more surprised to ask: then he died I do not have anything, I am old and sick to eat and drink, can not drag down my Xiao Lei!

she is an open and cheerful person, and she can't hide things in her belly. One day she came and was uneasy. Only after asking did she know that the old man had high blood pressure the night before and was not feeling well. I asked her to take a day off to take a look. She said forget it. She's all here. But all day long, I watched her call the old man, tell the daughter to go back to see your father early, call the old man later to ask what he wants to eat in the evening, don't move, I'll go back to do it, and then call a friend to ask about the blood pressure medicine. He is an insightful person who loves people. When he left, he asked me what organic watermelons were. I explained that she listened, thought about it, and said that it would be more expensive. If you are sick, you should eat something expensive.

she is a person who sells her physical strength. She knows the hardship of every penny. I have experienced the hardship of raising children myself. I can understand why the price of my sister-in-law is so high. It is really difficult to earn this money. In the beginning, I found her through the intermediary. I gave the intermediary 100 yuan, and the intermediary wanted to smoke her 400 yuan. She was very reluctant to give up. Maybe she thought that I was a scholar and had many ideas, so she asked me if I had any way to avoid the intermediary. I said that it had been released online. She hesitated again after asking carefully. She was afraid that the intermediary would be embarrassed to see it because she wanted to leave her phone number on the Internet. After all, he is still a man of his duty. I just want to live a few days. I said I could recommend it to the person who came to ask, and she was very happy to hear it.

I read a Weibo the other day, which probably means: a person who has lived in a small circle for a long time with limited knowledge will mistakenly think that he is authoritative, and a person who has never been exposed to hallucinations face to face will think that he is impeccable. A person who is attached to a small group laughing and cursing will often feel strong inside, but in fact, these people are the most paper tigers. At first glance, I think everything is lying down.

from school to school, from security to stability, I have never experienced any setbacks or seen all kinds of life. The only cynicism comes from the boredom of adolescence. The resistance, depression, and unruly that I have experienced, written, and pondered over and over again are nothing but exquisite boredom under pampering in the eyes of teacher Liu, belonging to idle panic. Of course, it is a state of life of a scholar, but compared with her life of fighting for heaven and earth and striving for life, it is a kind of morbid incompetence and uselessness.

but she will not be as eloquent as I am, unable to say these big truths, she just said: you have to relax, it is useless to think too much, get the job done first.

I'm going to my mother-in-law's house after the full moon, so I won't renew my contract. When I checked out with her on the last day, I packed it in an envelope out of habit, and she said loudly that I would order it. I'm sure it was right, but we were both down-to-earth.

because after leaving for half a year, the rice noodles, grain, and oil at home could not be taken away, and they would go bad. I packed them all for her to take away, and an old cabinet at the door was also given to her. I gave her a wallet to her husband and a notebook to Xiao Lei. She said a few words of thanks and farewell because I was not sure about the situation in the future, and she relieved me, saying: when I come back to work next year, if no one brings you to work, I will find me, and I will give you a little cheaper, but it will not be much cheaper, but I will certainly try my best to take care of the child for you.

with that, he took out three more large pieces of money and slipped them to me, and said, "I'll take it as a gift to the child." Then he took out the washed jumpsuit and gave it to me, saying that it would be better to wear this on the plane without revealing his belly. Then he took the trouble to explain to me that he went to my mother-in-law's house to take care of everything, and taught me how to touch and bathe the child, how to add supplementary food, and how not to hold the child. Lesbians and miscellaneous things told me to take her to the door, the elevator came, will be returned before leaving, and then tell me: don't think about it, there is no way to get through when the children have it.