Remember the last thing you said when you broke up?
Regret is for those who will do better if they do it again.
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I remember.
my last breakup was not a clear end. I said I wanted to go, and he turned around one step at a time. He said that's it, but he still called. So after an exhausting and emotional process, I almost prayed and said, "I'll let you go, and you'll let me go. I'm going to start a new life." I don't want to do this for another day.
actually I remember the last sentence of every breakup, including when I was younger. At that time, I always thought my boyfriend was childish, but I didn't realize that I was childish and ridiculous at that time. When I found that any little thing could be a reason why I couldn't bear to make a fuss, I slowly began to understand that this was probably the end of my emotional life. I could have broken up well, but I insisted on finding out one of his faults to lose my temper for the last time. It seemed that I could have the upper hand. In the anger and grievance, I put the blame of the bad guy on this person who was not innocent.
I remember him saying to me before he let go, "strong> you are so grumpy. Can you believe that no one will ever spoil your bad temper like me again?" now that I think about it, I have never met anyone who spoils my bad temper like him again. Because, after leaving him, I found that my temper is simply amiable and good!
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I also asked my former senior sister about this question. She said that to break up is not to boil a bowl of Mengbo soup after using your life, hoping that you can forget this person when you drink it off. but I am always greedy. I want to forget the pain and remember the good all the time. so I used the wrong formula. Although I don't remember who said what to whom in our last sentence, I can still see and feel his turning and quickening pace without hesitation at that time. That day, I angrily sent a message on moments, "I wish you not to be too happy for the rest of your life." Maybe it's the last word. But I probably wouldn't say that now, or maybe when we broke up, we just walked away and didn't say anything.
sometimes on the street, in all kinds of places where people come and go, we occasionally become bystanders in other people's lives. I have heard a girl humbly ask to stay, saying to the person on the other end of the phone, I listen to you, I will no longer doubt you, will not peek at your mobile phone, please don't break up with me. Please don't go to her.
I have seen the despair of a big man, like a pig's head running after a swallow's car in the movie. In the busiest festival in the city, he chased a car that would never stop. Someone who will never turn back for him. 'i don't want her to stay,'he said.'I just haven't had time to tell her that I want her to be happy every day, happier than me and happier than anyone else.
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what exactly did you say in the last sentence of the breakup? do you remember? are you still sad? But whether you remember it or not, whether you are sad or not. You don't have to regret it anymore. you've done everything you can and can't do it, and doing it again is the limit. regret is for those who will do better if they do it again. so, it's better to do what you want to do incisively and vividly before the last word of the breakup, one at a time. Regret such a thing for the rest of your life, be selfish and leave it to others.
Chen Zhaocai on Weibo said, "there are things called priorities in life, you just don't have enough priorities." Everyone has a sequence list in mind, and those who gather and break up and fall apart are because you and each other are not the first priority of each other. " We can never avoid trade-offs, and love is not everyone's first choice. If you put first place in this position, he also put something else. I prefer to believe that everything that has happened has been the best we can see.
there is no pleasant way to break up, and the last dialogue, no matter what you say, hurts. We have given up, but also been abandoned, sometimes evil words add up, hard to retain. Sometimes I am calm and don't say anything. May you forget what you forget when you are asked this question again, and it doesn't matter whether you should talk about it with a smile.
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