Please be smart.

Christopher analyzed a patient in "appropriate self-esteem":

later I found out that my patient was a different kind of psychological disorder. She is smart and beautiful, as they say, with all the prerequisites for happiness, nothing but one thing: a little self-esteem.

there are many people with low self-esteem in relationships, such as Yoyo.

once she falls in love with someone, she starts to please each other, completely losing her own life, and her friends in the circle will become friends of her boyfriend. Because of this, Yoyo will worry about gains and losses as soon as she falls in love, and life can be turned upside down by the slightest thing.

Yoyo had a boyfriend before. Because he was busy on a business trip, it was very slow to reply to the message. Yoyo suspected that his boyfriend was having an affair, and a plane ticket arrived at his boyfriend's hotel. Her boyfriend is going to see a client in the evening, so Yoyo goes on a hunger strike when she is unhappy. She makes a scene in the hotel and asks her boyfriend to stay with her. She said: I have flown to Hong Kong for you, but you are not even willing to give me any time.

in Yoyo's emotional view, she thinks that as long as she pays and sacrifices for the other person without a bottom line, the other person should be kind to her. Yoyo feels that as long as she is kind to him, even if the part she gives is not what the other person needs, the other person will be nice to her, but the truth is that the more accommodating she is, the more she sacrifices and gives, the more pressure her boyfriend feels.

many girls always want to please each other and lower themselves when they fall in love, but these unnecessary "inferiority" can easily put heavy emotional shackles on both sides.

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feelings sometimes do not turn feelings into a burden, the original intention of feelings should be to give each other a pleasant feeling, not pressure, not depression, but a feeling of ease and ease.

A boyfriend of mine told me that a girl had been obsessed with him before, looking for him every time she got drunk, making trouble when she couldn't find him, pestering his brother to find out his whereabouts, causing all his friends to avoid this girl and giving him a headache when he thought of this girl.

when they first met, the boy said frankly that he had a good feeling, but in the process of getting along, the girl demanded more and more emotion from him and wanted more and more care and care, which made the boy feel very pressured. After all, he was not a girlfriend, but he was worried about his girlfriend.

during that time, boys always complained to their friends that they were tired and had never felt that being liked was such a stressful thing.

A friend once asked me how to reject someone you don't like but likes you very much.  I said: direct rejection is the best.

when you like someone, it is easy to ignore the resistance of others and only be willing to believe what you want to believe. A perfunctory reply can give rise to various versions of ambiguous plots, and a look can catalyze flirting misunderstandings.

you think direct rejection is a kind of harm, but it is the best way to reduce the injury of two people.

in addition, I hope everyone can be chic and accept love or not.

I am lucky and lose my life.

how many people are afraid of losing, so regardless of gains and losses,

have to toss themselves to black and blue before they are willing to let go of their obsession.

I'm not that deep. I just want simple happiness.

I hope that while you love each other,

do not give in blindly.

I hope that while you love each other,

can also be loved.