Most of your anxiety is self-inflicted.
Not afraid of being slow, but afraid of standing.
probably because spring is coming, this season is suitable for animals to find mates, and it is also suitable for human nature to liberate and free. it's just a little strange that the friends around them seem to have made an appointment, one by one to leave their jobs one after another. the inexplicable popularity of moments has led to a wave of "resignation".
most post-90s go to work for the same reason, nothing more than lack of money. but each has its reasons to resign, some because the leader is stupid, some because colleagues are immoral, some want to Gap year, others just evade the workplace. Most of them are unrestrained and wanton, there is a kind of Jiangsu knight-errant style, only a sister who is older than me, the reason for resigning is the most unforgettable.
this year is the third year of her marriage, and the family is curious about why her stomach is not getting better. When they go out for a walk, the chatting neighbor's old lady's eyes are fixed on her belly. As a middle level in a start-up company, she is very capable and works carefully. Recently, she happens to have a rare opportunity for promotion. At this juncture, she suddenly submitted her resignation to the company. I was surprised. "I'm pregnant," she smiled sheepishly. "I'm not reconciled to it, but what can I do?" In the eyes of my family, not getting pregnant at my age is like doing something wrong. "
the same development opportunity would be much easier if it came to men. If you pursue your career, concentrate on it, no one will come to stop it. "wait a minute!" You have more important things to do! ". They don't have to give up, they don't have to be aggrieved, and they don't have to force themselves to do what they should do before the deadline designated by others.
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ask yourself from time to time, what on earth are you in a hurry for?
often hear from fans backstage from Wechat. A 22-year-old college girl majoring in chemistry feels that she has wasted all her good time in the laboratory. Advertisers who have just graduated and entered society do not believe in what they are doing, let alone love it. Young directors who love movies want to pour all their blood into movies and are eager to see their names in cinemas one day.
however, most of them will have one here, but it is too late to make a change at the current age, and failure means wasting more time and cost. So I have to rush forward along the existing route, safe and worry-free, but occasionally I feel that it doesn't seem right. What's wrong with
is that if there is no so-called deadline, how can there be a unified timeline? Seize the time, blindfolded to run forward, do not look at the scenery along the way, do not know where the destination is, what on earth have we grasped? What on earth are you chasing?
you
is not afraid of being slow, but only afraid of standing.
what the bamboo thimble said on Weibo gave me a lot of strength. "I'm not afraid of being slow, but I'm afraid of standing." The important thing is that you need to have your rhythm.
there was a grandfather chef in Japan who realized that he loved painting at the age of 80, so he immediately started painting by hand. Sometimes he was inspired to paint all night, and his family couldn't stop him. It's just that his health went from bad to worse, and he died a few years later, leaving a few manuscripts to spread to the world, and the paintings were amazing. The first reaction I heard was, "what a pity. I wish I had started earlier." My friend's reaction was just the opposite of mine. "but some people ask for it all their lives. Isn't it amazing to be able to do something they love in their lifetime?"
in a sense, only God is qualified to set deadlines, that is, the life span for human beings. For ordinary people, break the so-called rules, to feel, to find, to find what they want, crowds and panic, do not be easily pushed.
I believe that really brave people will choose the difficult road when they are confused. Like Shen Guangyao in "No questions about the West and the East", the teenager is in his prime, studying hard, inheriting the family business, all the way, bright and boundless, but he wants to be a wartime pilot. Doesn't he know what it means to be a pilot? No one knows better than him, but he still wants to go and answer the phrase "Love what you love, do what you do, listen to your heart, and ask nothing."
the dream of youth is realized while you are young.
when spring comes, the spring of life is gradually awakening.
whenever I see one after another brave young friend around me who are brave to change the status quo, they resign, break up happily, leave their comfort zone, turn around and devote themselves to a challenge that is bigger and more complex, but also more exciting and more passionate. it is fascinating to step on your rhythm, carefully do what you think is meaningful, love hard and live with your heart.
to protect these girls who live hard and their dreams, Tencent Video's "101st Night shift Dream Tram" will leave punctually at 20:00 every night from April 20 to 26, along three routes across Beijing's Fifth Ring Road at night, to send the girls home.
take advantage of tired nights and dreams and bid farewell to today in the most ideal way.
because the dream of youth is to be finished in youth.
just as it will be launched on April 21, Tencent Video's youth dream-building program "Produce 101" allows you to witness the growth of 101girls and encounter the dream of youth every Saturday at 8 pm.
when you are young, you will hit a brick wall, be frustrated, be looked down upon, and be beaten.
but it doesn't matter. The dream of youth is realized while you are young.
No matter how dark the night is,
there are still young people who dream. We
are illuminated by our light.