Most of the strongest relationships are evenly matched.
Everyone envies Cinderella's good luck, but this beautiful fairy tale itself gives countless ordinary girls with rich dreams a slap in the face: Cinderella is an aristocrat, and her two sisters really have nothing.
there was once a tall building on Tianya, talking about the original match and the other woman in the period of the Republic of China. I was a bit saddened by the stories of those old people who had long passed away. In their reply posts, many people denounced the scum men who abandoned their wives and shouted themselves hoarse, remembering the sentence forwarded by countless girls, "one day the sword will be in hand and the world will be defeated." I can't help being dumb. & nbsp; I do think that most of the emotional things are due to congenial agreement and disagreement. It is morality and responsibility that people can restrain themselves, not feelings. In essence, marriage and love run counter to each other. Whether a relationship can be lasting and strong, to a large extent, is a game between two people, and only those who are evenly matched can go to the end. & nbsp; is evenly matched not only in wealth and background but also in their talent, character, ability, interests, and preferences. Zhang Xueliang doesn't like Yu Fengzhi, who is more beautiful and dignified, but he likes Zhao Si, the social flower, simply because she is aggressive and extroverted, and Zhao Si is more in line with his aesthetic. Lu Xun, a radical revolutionary fighter, naturally could not show his admiration for Zhu Ansheng, a woman with small feet. If we seriously evaluate the three women related to Xu Zhimo, Zhang Youyi is more beautiful and gentle and has a deeper affection for Xu Zhimo. She is even indomitable.
After being abandoned by Xu Zhimo with a big belly, she still grits her teeth and lives beautifully. She raised a child, went to an American school, and became a strong woman. But in the eyes of Xu Zhimo, a young foreigner, she is still a dull countrywoman. He prefers Lin Huiyin's gentleness, intelligence, talent, and Lu Xiaoman's enchanting eyes and brows. And Generalissimo Chiang Kai-shek, who once loved Chen Jieru, after his political marriage with Soong Mei-ling, the two have gone through so many years hand in hand, I am afraid they have long been captivated by Soong Mei-ling's talent and demeanor and left Chen Jieru behind. Seeing the later picture, the old generalissimo Chiang Kai-shek, wearing a bald head, opened his mouth and smiled like a child beside the elegant and moving Soong Mei-ling. Is this the so-called "holding hands and growing old together"? What I envy most is Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang, and the reason why they have been able to fall in love with each other for many years, apart from their good conduct, I think the most crucial reason is that their families are similar, they are both scholarly and well-matched. The combination makes the parents of both sides very happy, no one raised any objection, and their talents and learning are equal. Qian Zhongshu is full of experience, Yang Jiang is also proficient in foreign languages and excellent writing. The rarest thing is that his character is exactly complementary.
Qian Zhongshu is a child's mind and has no pain in the world, but Yang Jiang is willing to take care of his life and handle world affairs for him. I think the most perfect combination is this, isn't it? They are well-matched, have the same interests, complement each other, speak truthfully, and live a good life. Nbsp; said so much just to explain one point, perhaps, a point that many people don't want to admit: most of the time, you think your lover has failed you, but often your growth can't keep up with him. Most of the time, you are helpless that your love will be interfered with by both parents after setbacks. In fact, in the eyes of more rational parents and relatives, your conditions do not match. In other words, you are not opponents on the same level, there is no equal strength to maintain the balance of the relationship, the role that feelings can play is often very small, in the end, the damage will only be deeper. & nbsp; there are always so many ordinary and ordinary girls dreaming of Cinderella, hoping that one day they can meet their prince, fall in love at first sight, fall in love, unable to extricate themselves. But then what? A girl from a poor background, even if she is predestined to meet a domineering president. Is it certain that you can live a happy and beautiful life from now on? Perhaps, in a more common situation, in their relationship, she was always scared, careful, afraid to make trouble, afraid to pester, afraid to send text messages and make phone calls and even chose to swallow her anger and accept his excuse even after he had another woman. But it is because, in this relationship, they have never been evenly matched, they are not the same level of opponents at all. In an unequal relationship, the weak party is not even qualified to express dissatisfaction. In Love of the City, Zhang ailing used the destruction of a whole city to fulfill the love between Fan Liuyuan and Bai tassel. this is not because Grandma Zhang, the ancestor of the romance novel, deliberately played the romance of falling over the country, but because she, who had experienced the ruin of her family, knew better that only when the country broke down and her life was at stake, there were all kinds of secularity and prejudices between Fan Liuyuan and Bai tassel. Will be scared away by this deafening gunfire, leaving only two beating hearts. Love sometimes is not without, but it has never been so pure. To put it cruelly, if ordinary people want to marry the aristocracy, they will probably have to wait until the aristocracy is dilapidated. Nbsp; everyone envies Cinderella's good luck, but this beautiful fairy tale itself gives countless ordinary girls with dreams of a rich family a slap in the face: Cinderella is an aristocrat and her two sisters have nothing. Because of this, her beauty and aristocratic temperament may make the prince fall in love at first sight, and the prince does not love her clothes, let alone her crystal shoes. And her sisters will never get a chance. & nbsp; For a girl, her final life, including her love, should come from her struggle, so that she can be calmer and determined without fear and loss, just because she knows that at this moment, standing beside that person, in every way, she is worthy of him, and she is not afraid, because she finally has enough self-confidence. To seize everything that belongs to you. The person we are looking for should be the same as ourselves. If you want something better, you have to try to be a better person. Even in a relationship, there are no shortcuts.
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