Mom's advice: your life is more important than right or wrong.

because of the news of "steaming fish to kill his wife", all the major media are discussing the Chinese-style relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which extends to various major discussions, such as women's rights, filial piety, and so on. However, I only think of my mother, who is also a mother-in-law, who has always got along well with my sister-in-law, but I think of her not to talk about her deeds as a mother-in-law, but to remember that she always had a very different education for me from an early age, that is, she always stressed to me that I should talk to people well and fall in love with others, and when I was in love, I always told me that if I had a dispute with my boyfriend, I should not intensify the conflict, but I must be calm. Once there is a problem, we should deal with it coldly and solve it later. At that time, I always thought that her advice was very strange as if it was different from other people's mothers, but she stressed this point all the time. Now, maybe it's because she has worked in school all her life and is the mother of a boy, so she pays too much attention to young people with high spirits. Therefore, you must tell me to keep calm in an emergency and understand the concept of weighing the pros and cons, because she can't be with me all the time. I need to know how to protect myself. After the news of "steaming fish and killing his wife" came out, I also remembered a piece of news that happened in Hangzhou that year, when a female college student from Zhejiang University took a taxi when she came home in the evening. Because the taxi driver took a detour (I don't know if it was intentional or not), he jumped the watch for three yuan more. The two men argued downstairs in the girl's house. The driver pushed the girl in an uncalm state, and the girl began to yell indecent assault. Then the driver went to cover the girl's mouth and strangled the girl. I still remember that in the newspaper at that time, after everyone knew the truth of the matter, the young colleagues in the office thought that they couldn't say something because of a few words. The driver must have wanted to rape and rob. I said that it would be all right to say a few words at this time.

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my colleague girl is very angry: no, why should I say a few words and let him take advantage of me?. Nbsp; steamed fish with shredded ginger is not that important. It is not that important whether the driver made a detour and got a few more yuan. After watching so many discussions and reports afterward, everyone was arguing about who was right and who was wrong and discussed ethics, but no one proposed how women should protect their safety under such circumstances, and in my opinion, this is more important than right or wrong. So I want to write out my mother's advice to all the girls: once you argue with men unless you have practiced Sanda and martial arts, girls are likely to suffer losses, so in case of emergency, if you see the contradiction escalate, you must first try not to intensify the contradiction, deal with it coldly, appease the other party who is too excited, and then find a way to evacuate yourself to a safe area quickly. Don't insist on who is right and who is wrong. It doesn't matter. Your life and personal safety are more important than right and wrong. & nbsp; should be rarely confused in trivial matters and principled in big matters. It doesn't matter whether steamed fish with shredded ginger or not, but there must be zero tolerance for domestic violence. Unfortunately, I often see that many girls are just the opposite. They are especially easy to compete on trifles, but when they are abused by men, they want to make do with their lives.

the girl who was killed in the news is sighing. At this point in life, it would be better to get divorced and stop those unnecessary disputes. On the night of her husband's first domestic violence, she should have left quickly and moved to a safe place. Maybe she would have saved her life. She was innocent, but she did have technical errors and mistakes in judgment. At a time when everyone is talking about family ethics who is right and who is wrong, I just want to remind girls that they need to have more awareness to protect themselves, to remember that there is sometimes a thin line between human nature and bestiality and that when there is a fierce conflict with men, we women are indeed physically weak, so we have to face reality, don't be brave, don't stick to it, and put ourselves in danger. Whenever, remember that your safety is the most important, happiness is the most important, even if steamed fish without shredded ginger is a truth, you do not have to pay the price of your life. The purpose of writing this article casually today is not to discuss right and wrong. In the face of life safety, even family ethics are secondary. I just hope that such tragedies will not happen again.