Maybe fairy tales need to be told in another way.
Fairy tales give us another choice in life, which is to let us become brave people to protect what we love. And you, however, want to be an adult quietly.
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| Xiao Hong |
1.
many fairy tales are told to adults.
all the fairy tales we know have happy endings.
but some warm moments of life are like a fairy tale.
but with the ups and downs of life, there are always thorns for us to take risks.
one of my girlfriends has mentioned to you many times before that she is a very happy girl.
from the beginning of college, we can see that her father dotes on her so much that he doesn't let her do anything or suffer any grievances. She is simply her father's little princess. When she first went to college, she sat on the bed with her mother. Her father arranged her cabinet and bed very neatly, pasted wallpaper, asked her carefully what she wanted to eat, and went downstairs to buy food and daily necessities. At the graduation ceremony, she walked the red carpet with her parents. Her father took a camera and photographed his daughter all the way. Usually, her father would take a lot of good-looking pictures for her. Aggrieved, she immediately called her father and cried. Every time she called her father, she would immediately become a different person. She sounded like a child who had just entered kindergarten. It was a normal voice to call her mother, and she had endless coquettish feelings with her father.
once, she told me that my father should have been my lover in my last life, and sometimes he was so kind to me that my mother was jealous.
the man who treats me the best in the world has found my mother, and I think it's hard for me to find a boyfriend who treats me as well as my father does.
even if I find a boyfriend later, in fact, my requirements may be very high, no one can surpass my father.
with her father, her whole world is protected.
2.
one day I was chatting with a group of friends. A girl said that her family didn't have much money, but her parents loved her very much and never let her lack money. She said, "I still want to go abroad willfully, and my parents have never said anything." They try their best to give me the best things, as long as I have the little expression I want. "
however, you may not know who we were more miserable that day. After that, the girl found herself so happy.
someone lost their mother, and her father ignored her. She lived alone with her grandfather.
some parents divorced, and all the expenses were provided by his mother's uncle and grandmother. it was not until he became a writer and published a book that his financial difficulties were resolved.
in fact, after reading everyone's stories, I realized one thing: everyone is burdened with maturity and stories that may not be appropriate for this age. The reason why everyone is still actively facing the bitterness of life is that there are still people around us who have always loved us, and fairy tales may have to be told in another way. When we were young, we all believed that our core memory balls were happy, but, the difficulty of life is that each of us can not only see the beauty of fairy tales, or that the reason why fairy tales are beautiful is that we cut through difficulties all the way. Only then will the bitterness come to an end. You see, Wu Qilong once took on more than 10 million debts owed by his father, which took 12 years to pay off, and then faced divorce. But in front of Liu Shishi, he said, "I will be obedient." more than forty men have become little boys. In the fairy tale of love, both men and women are the same, will return to childlike innocence.
but we are all in fairy tales.
it's just that some people have more adventures, while others have a relatively smooth road.
but in the end, it will be the best result.
3.
I have always been relatively independent, and it has always been difficult to understand what it is like to rely on a person.
my friends are afraid that I take slippers to fight for them.
I help them screw water bottles and glass cans that my friends can't unscrew.
maybe I have never been spoiled like a little princess.
until I met my current boyfriend.
I just found that when I meet someone who takes care of me in every way,
will turn me into a little girl who doesn't grow up.
every time I am with him, I feel that my voice changes and everything becomes childish. I wish I could hold his hand and play the most childish games all the way.
that kind of dependent mood can easily change a person's state of mind, and it's a wonderful experience that it's hard to stimulate if you don't meet such a warm person in your life.
A few days ago, I was chatting with my best friend who was in the UK for more than ten years.
she said that you are now so spoiled by your boyfriend that you are starting to use cartoon avatars. I've known you for so many years, and I've never seen you like this before. It's changed a lot.
Yes, it has changed a lot. Love can make people live in fairy tales.
I saw a video on Weibo some time ago about a girl whose boyfriend was sucked into the pixel world and became very bad. Then the girl went through the game many times and did not give up to save the boy. She had all kinds of ways to die, but she was born again and again to understand and save each other, but he also treated her like a fairy tale girl. Sometimes the power of love is very strong, you think you are vulnerable, but for the sake of the person you love, you can become very strong, which is an energy that you cannot even predict.
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if you put it differently in fairy tales, if you lose your protection and those who love you are in danger, you will find that your energy is so strong that you are no longer the delicate child under their protection.
Love can stimulate all unknown forces in the body, just for the sake of the one you love. Go smoothly.
so at some point, we start to protect them.