May we finally learn how to love

A girl once confided to me that her mother was always worried about her and worried about her living alone in a different place. She was very troubled and didn't know what to do. After I learned something, I realized that her mother was worried because every time she called her mother, she was talking about all kinds of troubles in her work life. I suggested, "can I report the good news but not the bad news when I call again in the future?" It means that only say happy things, and worry about things, take care of themselves.

many people will feel that home is the warmest harbor in the world. If they are aggrieved, of course they have to tell to their families and get comfort. Parents are the most reliable relatives in the world. If you don't tell them, who else can you tell? How do you need to worry so much about getting along with your parents?

the same is true of friends. They feel that they have to confide in their friends because they are friends, which shows that I trust you. Friends can't be called friends if they can't share the pain with each other.

this is the case. However, many people forget one thing: you have grown up.

growing up means commitment, not only to learn to deal with your own worries independently, but also to learn to take care of your parents' worries and take care of them. The relationship between friends is not only to share the pain, but also to share the happiness.

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I have always felt that Chinese parents have a heavy burden. First of all, they have to raise their own children, and then they have to worry about their children's employment, love and marriage. When children get married and have children, they are often taken care of by their parents. When I walk on the road, if I come across the time between school and school, I often see the old man with the children, pick up or send them off.

my own parents are the same. When Dabao Erbao was born, they were extremely happy. Since both parents of my brother-in-law's side have passed away, the responsibility for taking care of the children mainly lies with my parents. The old man loves his children meticulously. At night, my mother takes the child Rest, and my sister goes home.

I think my mother worked very hard in those years, and the root of the disease should also be in those years. I remember that I also seemed to give some advice to my sister at that time, what she meant was that I would trouble my parents even if I had a child in the future, so don't talk about her. I secretly decided in my heart that I wouldn't.

and it's not just the parents' side. I remember once my mother-in-law told me that if she worried that the child would not be taken care of in the future, don't worry, she would help take care of it. Of course I believe her, but I won't do that either. Mother-in-law's retirement life is very carefree, often go out to play on her own, with silver hair, she is mentally vigorous, taking care of her children will certainly affect her quality of life.

after my sister's baby is born, she mainly takes care of it herself. Of course, my sister does have her reasons. It's not easy to take care of twins.

growing up means a lot of content. If you want to earn money to support yourself, you have to support your family, and you have to take care of your parents. Even if your parents don't need money, you have to visit and buy gifts for your parents to express your feelings. If there is anything in the family of both parents, they should help deal with it, and try to be on their own at work. After having a child, we should take good care of the child, give the child a good environment, and become a role model for the child.

people have lived in this way for generations. Hundreds of years have elapsed between A Dream of Red Mansions and Jinghua Yanyun, but the routines of big families are the same. In the early days of the poor, children from rich families had to learn to stand on their own feet and then take the baton. Tianxingjian, the gentleman to self-improvement, this content, not only includes learning, learning is just a way, the goal is to become an official or other.

growing up also means that you can accept the love of your parents emotionally, but psychologically, you have to grow up and become a person who thinks independently and lives independently. Spiritually, you should also be slowly independent. Enjoy love but not waste it. Don't treat each other as emotional trash cans because of the love of your parents, lovers, and friends. Because of closeness and trust, you dump a lot of rubbish and be polite to outsiders.

not all things need to be solved by confiding to others and transferring the burden to others. Some things can be written on paper and muttered to themselves, but standing in front of people is full of sunshine. The love of family and friends is like an energy pool, because of their presence, they feel at ease. As for the trouble, if you can solve it by yourself, you should do it yourself.

it is said that the behavior of confiding to others because of trust also has room for improvement, because other people do not necessarily need such trust.

A person can always live in an inner child in the depths of his heart. No matter how old or even getting old, a person is still a child in the eyes of parents who love him. However, one cannot connive at one's own weakness, nor can he act coquettish to everyone just because he is in love, thinking that others should love him. In that case, slowly, he will lose a lot.

time flows away, but it can teach us a lot.

be kind to life and love.