It is often these kinds of people who live more and more valuable after the age of 40.

speaking of middle age, Liang Wendao once said:

the advantage of young people is that every young man believes that he can fly. On the other hand, when the middle-aged man is flapping his wings, there are still heavy weights on both wings that cannot be thrown off. "

Yes, when you reach middle age and the half slope of life, every step is particularly difficult. However, even if you climb a mountain with a heavy load, you can only keep going upward. Half of my life has passed, and if you want to live better and better, you must work harder to "add value" to yourself. It is often these kinds of people who live more and more valuable. 01

everyone who ploughs himself is born for a hundred years, such as the morning dew. No one can change the length of life, but excellent people are always ploughing themselves and constantly broadening the width of life. At the age of 57, Mo Yan won the Nobel Prize for Literature. For a time, the scenery was boundless and the limelight was in full swing. After winning the prize, Mo Yan was silent for as long as eight years. At that time, many readers were eagerly looking forward to urging Mo Yan to publish a new book. On the other hand, Mo Yan took his time until eight years later, he returned to the reader's field of vision with his new book "the late ripening Man." On the day of the return, 1.5 million online onlookers were cited, which can be called a phenomenal literary event. He said:

"over the past eight years, I have been working hard, persisting in creating, or preparing for creation." It turns out that in the process of preparing his new book, Mo Yan wrote operas, poems and novels, and traveled to many places. For a writer, anything he does may become the material of the novel or the trigger point of inspiration. Mo Yan spends much more on desk preparation than on writing a new book. Zhu Xi once said:

"if you want to do great things, you must be honest." If a man wants to live a worthwhile life, he must first learn to settle down in his own field and work hard with ingenuity. When you walk enough roads alone and your ability accumulates to a certain height, you will slowly open the gap with ordinary people. Gradually, you will understand that the efforts you have made and the sweat you have shed are helping you achieve a different life.

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Zeng Zi, who often reflects on himself, said:

"I reflect on myself three times a day: do you work for others and be unfaithful?" Make friends but don't believe it? Are you used to it? " If a person wants to improve his own value, he needs to reflect on himself and perfect his shortcomings all the time.

there is such a story.

in 1978, a 31-year-old man accidentally used a vacuum cleaner called Hoover.

he found that the vacuum cleaner often clogs the stomata because the dirt is filled with dust bags.

therefore, it is often necessary to replace the dust collection bag manually during the operation of the machine, which is very inconvenient to use.

this kind of vacuum cleaner, which requires constant replacement of dust bags, has a history of 70 years.

people at that time were already used to buying vacuum cleaners and constantly buying dust bags at the same time.

therefore, the design of the vacuum cleaner has not been updated. In response to this pain point, young people are determined to change.

keep trying, reflecting and correcting.

finally, five years later, after 5127 failures, the young man developed a bagless double helix vacuum cleaner.

as soon as this invention was put on the market, it immediately took the lead in the world, and the lives of young people changed greatly.

later, this young man became the world-famous "king of British design". He was James Dyson, the founder of Dyson.

entrepreneur Shi Yuzhu once had a famous saying:

"Man, an animal, every time he succeeds, his IQ drops; every time he fails, his IQ goes up."

the really strong is not that he does not fail, but is good at learning from failure. They will turn each experience into the most valuable nourishment on the road of life, nourishing their future path. Until one day, they found that the past experience has been integrated into the experience of life, achieving a better self. They can improve themselves and make themselves more and more valuable, not by chance, but by day-to-day reflection and accumulation.

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in this materialistic society, most people think that success is nothing more than money and power. But many people have ignored that without a happy family, these things are just fleeting. When people reach middle age and have a stable and harmonious home, they will have more energy to pursue a better life. Blogger @ Zhang Gong told such a story. Beside Zhang Gong, there used to be a boss who was very rich and rich. In his fifties, he and his current wife know each other, and the two have always been in harmony. When Zhang Gong was on a business trip, he saw him go to the convenience store to buy meat and vegetables after work at 9 p.m. When Zhang Gong asked about it curiously the next day, the boss replied,

"in my family, we have to buy food and cook two days a week, and this rule will not be changed no matter how busy we are." As a big boss, Zhang Gong thought his behavior was a little strange, but he didn't ask any more questions. Until the end of the cooperation, the boss came to practice with Zhang Gong, he asked:

"when you are on a business trip in China, you go back to the hotel early every night, behave well when you go to KTV to do business, and often go home to cook for your wife, which is completely different from the big boss I imagined."

after listening to Zhang Gong, the boss first laughed and then replied seriously:

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"what a person's future is, in fact, you can see it from his family status. If a person can not even take care of his own family, then the family will be covered with sorrow. In the long run, people will be stuck in negative emotions for a long time, and it will be very difficult to have a happy future. "

indeed, no matter what age you reach, if you want to live out the value of life, the first thing is to run your own small home so that you don't have to worry about it on the way to struggle. Take good care of your family and your partner, no matter where you are.It is hard and tiring to work hard outside, as long as you think about the person in your heart, you can also feel at ease. Running a family well is the most worthwhile investment for the rest of your life.

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"of course there is only one time when a person reaches middle age!" Is it possible to grow old again? " Therefore, in his view, since there is only one life, every day should not be disappointed. He has worked as a film producer for 40 years and made a lot of painstaking efforts for the prosperity of Hong Kong films in the last century.