Is love eternal? Is marriage reliable?

there was a classic question: if the Titanic hadn't sunk, would Jack and Rose really hold hands and grow old together? With this doubt, ten years later, Xiao Li once again partnered with Kate Winslet to offer the "road to revolution" for everyone.

this time, people's hopes come true, and they become a couple. But after watching it, the audience felt cheated because the sweet part of the handsome men and women they expected was gone and replaced by an emotional crisis between husband and wife. The fragile relationship between the two is like a building that cannot be undone. Even though they made a great attempt to save the relationship, they didn't get what they wanted. Maybe it's just a coincidence in the movie.

however, history cannot be assumed, and so are the feelings in movies. The significance of tragic love is precisely that it shows enough beauty to the audience and leaves enough room for imagination and imagination, such as Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, Jack and Rose.

so people are willing to leave their best wishes to these regrettable love stories. Like Venus with a broken arm, these tragic love stories have a certain incomplete beauty. If you complete it, the answer may not be what you want, just like the "road to revolution".

but we have to deny that with the development of economic level, marriage in modern society is becoming more and more fragile. One obvious evidence is the increasing divorce rate and more and more extramarital affairs year by year. Economics talks about costs. When the costs of love and marriage fall, divorce increases.

there is a saying that the older generation has friction to repair in marriage, while modern marriage has friction to change. If the couple can't get together, let's get a divorce. The older generation adheres to the concept of sewing and mending and would rather suffer some grievances and hardships to maintain the continuation of their marriage, which has become rarer and rarer in modern society. Ideas are constantly developing, costs are falling, and people's attitudes towards marriage are becoming more and more different.

Go for the fashionable plus size tea length dresses only at a cheap and affordable price. Different varieties of shapes and cuts for you to take your pick.

in previous film and television works, the most extolling is the beauty of love, and the main theme is often the unswerving concept of love and marital feelings that help each other, which is especially common in domestic TV dramas, such as "Golden Marriage", such as "parents' Love Story" and so on. With the subtle changes in the relationship between people in modern life and the changes in emotional marriage, more and more films focus on the theme of fragile relationships in marriage. using a variety of forms and contents to discuss the marriage of contemporary people is also increasingly diversified in the type of subject matter.

the movie Revolutionary Roadshows the itch of seven years after marriage in a more realistic way-boredom has become the theme between husband and wife, the once tender days are gone, and all the good things have become memories. There is less and less tolerance between the two sides. A small thing can be the trigger for quarrels and contradictions, and grievances will eventually break out after years of backlog. Even if they want to save their dying marriage by moving to Paris, they do not know that it is nothing more than drinking poison to quench their thirst and push their marriage to a greater abyss. All this is nothing more than proving the argument that when two people's ideologies become far apart, different dreams in the same bed become the norm that leads them to an end, and the final result can only be split.

especially for two people with higher knowledge and education, more often, seeking common ground or reserving differences often plays a decisive role in whether they can persist in living together. Just imagine, if it is just an ordinary family, the husband and wife do not have a high education, then very often, ideas and sexual needs will force both sides to endure each other to maintain the family. Especially for vulnerable women, they have to put up with more. Otherwise, they will dare to pursue independent self and personality freedom like Nora who slammed the door.

A very interesting thing about this kind of movie is that the two protagonists in the movies are often people with high knowledge, and they are well educated. They have a unique understanding of life, marriage, and love. As a result, they will have a lot of ideas in the face of some problems in their marriage, which will naturally lead to more problems.

as shown in the movie the tourist, an occasional Avalanche with a low probability triggered a trust crisis between a couple, which collapsed like dominoes, becoming an insurmountable gap between husband and wife.

Avalanche is coming, and the husband takes care of his escape and forgets the wife who is in danger, which makes the wife who has a super long reflex arc very upset for the rest of her life. The husband's unconscious act of self-rescue has become a weapon for her to attack him all the time. So on any occasion, this matter will be mentioned by the wife, even when there are guests, the wife also ignores the face and dignity that the husband needs as a man. As a result, the gap between husband and wife is growing day by day.

finally, the conflict broke out and the family wailed in the room. You see, when there is doubt, even if you have children, no matter how much love you once had, marriage will be as fragile as a piece of happy potato chips, and "click" will be broken. Fortunately, the ending of "tourist" gives people hope. Finally, the husband saved a little self-esteem and marriage by looking for his wife who was lost in the heavy snow.

some people may ask, will love at first sight last? You see, when you ask this question, you already have the answer. The so-called love, at first sight, is just that two people share the same taste in a certain time and space, and with time, it is a big question mark whether this good feeling, at first sight, can last for a long time.

just like Nick and Amy when they first met in David Finch's movie lost Love: on a night intoxicated with the spring breeze, he met the beautiful her, and they fell in love at first sight and there was light in each other's eyes. When flying with honey powder, it's the right time to kiss.

then they began to fall in love and began to have crazy sex in various places. Then they got married. At first, the marriage life was happy and sweet. Several years later, the two sides began to get tired of each other. Finally, on the wedding anniversary, the wife disappeared and became a "lost lover". The police investigation found that all clues pointed to the husband as the murderer behind the wife's disappearance.

all this is just a game set by my wife. My wife, on the other hand, is enjoying life outside with a lot of money in her car. And when it all came to an end, the wife came back to her husband covered in blood. What a scary and scary story.

you may also ask whether it is a harmonious and stable marriage if two people have been married for 40 or 50 years, from paper marriage to silver marriage to gold marriage. I can't give you an answer here, because nothing is absolute. The movie "45th Anniversary" can just answer your question: an old couple who have been married for 45 years, the wife is preparing for the wedding anniversary, while the husband receives the news that the body of his girlfriend who died in an accident in the Swiss Alps 50 years ago has been found. As a result, the husband encloses himself in memories, while the wife tries to suppress her jealousy and anxiety. At this time, the wife suddenly realized that she had lived in a lie for so many years, her husband's love for his first girlfriend had never been forgotten, and his company for more than 40 years was not as good as the news he got many years later, how helpless and sad it was.

looks the same as usual, but two people who know that they have been married for many years are also facing a crisis. As a result, in the film, we see that the relationship between the two people for many years has gradually changed from stable to unbalanced, and the old husband and wife have gradually become "the most familiar strangers".

to put it beside the point, Charlotte Lamplin, the actor who plays his wife in the movie 45th Anniversary, has perfect performance, and the slightest trace of emotion is just right in her quiet performance. Maybe this is what people call the perfect integration of characters and characters.

when more and more directors put their stories in the discussion and criticism of marriage, how to express them with creative ideas has become the key. Just like the movie perfect Stranger, the motif of the film is still about the marriage and emotional relationship of modern people, but the director skillfully places the story on the mobile phone, which is an indispensable black box in people's daily life. through the idea of information and phone sharing to restore and show people's fragile emotional ties between people and marriage.

Seven good friends got together for dinner and decided to share everything on their phones that night: text messages, phone calls, and emails. As a result, many secrets began to surface, and the originally harmonious relationship between them began to fluctuate. This film is similar to the "Mobile phone" directed by Feng Xiaogang many years ago, but it goes one step further in terms of theme.

even for couples who sleep in the same bed, everyone has secrets that they can't tell others, and secrets can never be confided, even the best and most trusted friends. You always believe that all the secrets are sold by yourself.

in today's society, not only the relationship between husband and wife in marriage is fragile, but even the relationship between friends is fragile. To put it bluntly, the relationship between everyone and everyone is fragile. The network that maintains the relationship between the two is frighteningly thin, like a bubble in the sun. And more often, human nature has many weaknesses, human nature can not stand the test. So perhaps one piece of advice for people in this film is, don't be curious to test human nature, because the results will be terrible.

in addition to cold contemplation and fear, the movie "Perfect Stranger" also shows the good side of human nature, such as the fat man's protection of same-sex couples and the doctor's father's respectful teachings to his daughter.

of course, the most pitiful and favorite character is the doctor's father, who chooses to be tolerant even though he has seen something fishy in his wife's earrings. Of course, his EQ is also very high, and the phrase "good earrings" is not only an expression of his attitude but also a hint to his wife. He knows that the key to maintaining a marriage is to rely on the privacy of both parties to tolerate and accept each other's shortcomings.

Love is a hormonal explosion for some time, but marriage is not. In the end, marriage is a boring life in which passion fades away, a woman's nagging and a man turning a deaf ear. In the final analysis, the fundamental reason why marriage can be maintained is mainly the abandonment of ideal life and the acceptance of real life.

there is a saying that those who love to end up in the end. Those who live in partnership end up for a long time.