Is life boring, or are you boring?

A lot of people complain to me that they are unhappy. Life is boring and lifeless. I don't understand, since it's boring, why not find something to make your life interesting? And then they started looking for all sorts of excuses. For example, when it comes to sports, they will say that the weather is too cold for sports. When it comes to travel, there is never a holiday. When it comes to learning new things, I don't have time or interest. When it comes to watching DVDs and books, it's troublesome, but I can't go on. When it comes to parties, there are no friends.

say something else, and they sigh and say you don't understand. Others say, of course, you are happy that you can always travel to so many places. As for me, I was trapped in a place, repeating my boring life every day, and my feelings became dull day after day. Not like you, eating and drinking, bouncing every day, your living conditions are better than me, of course, life is beautiful. It doesn't hurt if you stand up and talk. I smiled and began to seriously recall the happy moments in my life. Does it have a lot to do with the money? The first thing I remember is that when I was a child, my father took me to fly kites. They all said that March was a good day to fly kites, but it was cold in the north, and the wind was not so stinging until April and May. My father made a kite skeleton out of bamboo strips or wooden sticks and then pasted it with a newspaper to make a strange-looking paper kite. Finally, I put on the fishing line and it was done, as far as I can remember, and then I cheered out the door and ran after him. 

Sometimes lucky, kites can fly, unlucky always stumble, my father and I are out of breath. Of course, more often, the kite flies for a while and then hangs on the telephone pole to declare the end of life. However, I am so happy. Sometimes the wind is too strong, blowing a mouth of yellow sand, go home like a kitten. I'm still happy. When you grow up, have you ever flown a kite again? Now whenever I see other people flying kites, I still feel very interesting when I think of my childhood experience. One summer afternoon, several children from our family hospital got together to study how to "explore" far away. Some wore cool hats, some took kettles, and others put on sneakers. In short, a few of us set out in high spirits. That afternoon we walked a long way, for a long time, it was the first time we went out alone without adults, everything was new and interesting. The sun was hot and we were all sweating but inexplicably excited. Later, when we saw a train track, we walked along the tracks and became more and more remote until there was no one around us. We felt scared and began to walk back. The end of the expedition was that we returned home safe and sound at dinner. But the kind of small satisfaction in my heart, the feeling of a "long journey", seems to have realized what the "outside world" is for the first time. Now, do you still have such an impulse, even if you just choose to take a look at the surrounding mountains and rivers on a weekend? When we were in primary school, parents didn't go home to cook at noon when they were busy at work. They usually gave their children a few yuan to buy their own steamed buns to eat. One day at noon, my good friend Miss Man Xiaoyu (still a good friend) took me to her house and said she wanted to boil egg soup for me.

at that time, there was no automatic fire stove. The mermaid was so powerful that she could use the stove of the gas tank. I watched with trepidation that she struck a match and lit the fire, boiled a pot of water on the stove, and poured the stirred egg liquid into it when the water boiled. As a result, she did not know to put starch, eggs were boiled out of a lump, but also poured in a lot of soy sauce, egg soup became black color. But we both ate it up, and I always encouraged her to say, "it's delicious, it's delicious." She was so happy. Now, are you still interested in cooking a big meal for yourself or your family according to the recipe? When I was in college, my favorite thing to do was to go to the back of the dormitory and sit halfway up the hill and look at the stars. As a result, I inadvertently found that the opposite was the boys' dormitory, and occasionally naked men were floating around. I thought it was funny. I grabbed my boyfriend at that time and said excitedly, "do you know?" There's a naked man in the back mountain! I'll take you to see the naked man. Then regardless of the black line on his forehead, he didn't forget to prepare drinks and snacks, which was like watching a 3D movie. 

Now, are you still curious about everything, even if it looks boring, unreasonable, or even low-level in the eyes of others? Before a few kids went abroad, we liked to play 414 (a kind of poker game) most. One summer vacation, what we did almost every day was to play 414 together, with all kinds of cheap words in the middle to challenge the psychological bottom line of the opposing team. On winter nights, several of us are walking on the road, and the people in front of us are walking, and the people behind us will suddenly jump on each other's backs. I also like to bet with boys and like to go on outings and take pictures with my friends. These seemingly meaningless tricks of killing time are the source of my happiness. There are many such things. But on second thought, when was the most unhappy time in my life? Is it related to money? One of the darkest memories of my life is the days when I took turns lodging at my aunt and uncle's house after my parents broke up. There is a real feeling of "relying on others". In addition, when I dropped out of school and went home automatically from Dalian, I felt that my life was remote and melancholy.

then there is breaking up with my college boyfriend. During that time, I was in a daze and life was worse than death. I have been very lucky that this happiness and unhappiness do not seem to have much to do with money. As a result, I don't have so much resentment about money. I always think that to be happy is to be happy. It's good to have money, but can money buy happiness? Not necessarily. There are no economic troubles, but there are other troubles. 

A happy person will find ways to make his life more interesting and will always see the happy side of life. It suddenly occurred to me that one day my college roommate suddenly sent me Wechat, saying that he had just gone to an art school to see the students' graduation performance. She said a little dejectedly: if I had known about college, I would have tried to do something serious. We spent so much time in college that we were wasting our time. I listened. I'm surprised. Why don't I feel like I wasted my time in college? Later, when I thought about it carefully, I realized. Although she and I often skipped classes in our dormitory in college, she played online games with her computer, or watched Korean variety shows, even though she laughed. Every day, I watch the movies recommended by the teachers of the Beijing Film Academy, write pull notes, and email them to the teachers. I also use donkeys to download documentaries. Because the classes in our college are too boring, I often go to other colleges to listen to lectures and occasionally travel with my classmates. I find something new every day. I can always find something new, interesting, and attractive to me, and she passes every day, even though she doesn't like it. 

When I used to be the most unhappy, I used to read and keep a diary. If there are no friends by my side and I need to be alone, I often choose to read and keep a diary. Words can enrich people and relax them. I also like to read aloud. We all know that some texts in Chinese textbooks will be written at the end of the text: read the text with emotion. So sometimes I am bored at home, so I hold the book by myself and read the text affectionately. Is it right to be stupid? But then I went to be a host, and ten hosts in the station went to take the Putonghua test. I was the only one in that group who got the first class. Before that, I hadn't learned to broadcast at all. I think whether people are interested or not depends on their state of mind. When I was in a bad mood, I also felt bored in life, but then I knew that I was bored. I've been playing since I was a kid. To be a model, to participate in a competition, to win a prize, I think it's fun. To be a host, to go to a TV station, to be on a show, I think it's fun. I think it's fun to go to college and run around Guangzhou and Guangxi with my friends. Come to Singapore, study psychological counseling, reply to everyone's letter, I still think it is very interesting, very funny. Of course, there are times when I am tired, sometimes I work hard, and sometimes I feel stressed. However, they are all the price I pay for my more interesting life and my interests. In Cantonese, I think it is very good. I am playful and never the one who works very hard. Compared to those who have made a lot of achievements, I am nothing and always fail to do my job. But in my life, I feel like I've got a lot.

I like to enjoy some happy times and enjoy some small happiness. I am not compared with others. I just want to be myself and live well. I also like those who have feelings, for example, I have a distant cousin, his family lives in the countryside, surrounded by mountains in the countryside, I went to his house to play, his family raised a lot of small animals, there are kittens, big yellow dogs, chickens, ducklings, rabbits, big white geese, and a horse. As soon as the back door of their house goes out, there are mountains and many fruit trees. On a summer evening when the sun sets and a cool breeze blows, he climbs up to the roof and plays the Fife. I like to stay beside him and lie on the roof listening to him play the flute. Sometimes I snatched it capriciously and had to play it, and accidentally broke the paper film on the flute. He was not annoyed, so he made another piece and pasted it on it. On such a breezy evening, the sound of the flute sounded melodiously in the valley, which is unforgettable to me to this day.

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however, their family is so poor that they don't even have much money for him to study. My cousin has to work early, but he is not particularly unhappy. On the night after work, he sat on the roof and played Fife. Occasionally, I went to the mountain to set up wild rabbits with a few friends, and I was so happy when I got there. I think an interesting person will have an interesting life. Life is boring? Life is so boring, isn't it? Have you ever thought that you are boring yourself? There is an old woman in the United States, Cathy Johnson, She is very interested in watercolor painting and draws a lot of beautiful pictures by hand. After reading it, I sigh that people who love life will always be beautiful. Even if people in their twilight years, still maintain the enthusiasm for life, you live a good life, your life is good, you live a boring life, your life is boring. Who are you to lament that life is boring? & nbsp; & nbsp;