I'm not spending your money with you.

I'm not spending your money with you.

I'm not even afraid. What are you afraid of?

there is always one way to forget a relationship: time and new love.

if time and new love can't make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: time is not long enough, new love is not good enough.

| Zhang Xiaoxian

 

I know a female friend.

this year,

she already has her independent photography studio.

she is very happy,

she says that her boyfriend supports her to do what she wants to do.


I'm happy for her

because she used to be a person without a sense of security.

A person who does not have a sense of security tends to have a successful career.

because the sense of security is given to itself.

I have met her ex-boyfriend,

who is a rich second generation,

she is a girl from Beijing,

ex-boyfriend works in Shanghai.

she dares to love and hate.

her ex-boyfriend told her to give up her job in Beijing.

go to Shanghai to find him.

for the sake of her ex-boyfriend,

she went to Shanghai alone.

after she went, she was a stranger.

she didn't find a suitable job for nearly half a year.

her ex-boyfriend kept her.

her ex-boyfriend is a Leo,

is always bossy to buy things for her,

her everything does not need her to spend money.

over time,

she felt uncomfortable and felt controlled by him.

the conflict finally broke out one day, and as she thought,

her ex-boyfriend said, I don't want to support you anymore.

she was surprised.

she has so pushed around when she had no money.

she booked a ticket back to Beijing on the same day.

I asked her for a drink at the end of last year.

she said I am no longer afraid of being dumped by scum men.

I have money and a career, and I am not afraid of anyone.

I have given myself enough sense of security. I am very down-to-earth.

We are not sure whether the man we meet is good enough,

but what we do know is that we can be good enough.

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Zhang Xiaoxian wrote something

in the woman on the Bread Tree, which I think is quite interesting.

she wrote:

"my incurable disease is

in love with a man who can't give me a sense of security."

"I have come to understand that the person I am in love with

is a person who is difficult for me to understand. He will forget that I am waiting for him, but write a song for me.

before I heard that song,

I never thought that he was so affectionate to me. "

"he can make me happy and

is the most capable of making me cry. "

" he fell in love with someone and couldn't tell why.

I don't love someone, and I won't say why.

he turned out to be a man not worth relying on. "

"I invested my youth in him.

if he succeeds, he may fall in love with another woman.

he failed. I have nothing. Love is so unreliable.

only a career is hard work and a harvest.

I want to have my career. "

     I want to stop having bread.   

then I can greet love with radiance.

I have seen some girls.

I think that love can be tied with youth.

there is nothing but a youth.

A college classmate I know

found a boyfriend with a good family after graduation.

while she continued to do intensive work,

she said that spending time with her boyfriend is not to spend his money.

I have my sense of security only because I am financially independent.

I can still live without him.

Why should I let my retreat change?

when she said this after she was dumped by her boyfriend,

borrowed money from a friend to take a taxi home.

We can't guarantee that

every man we meet is reliable.

but what you give yourself,

    

Women's insecurity stems to a large extent from their lack of independence.

sense of security is not given by others, it is brought with you.

being independent in character and economy

is the largest source of the sense of security.

my girlfriend told me the other day that

her Hong Kong boyfriend asked her to go to Shanghai after graduating from England.

she is a girl from Dalian and doesn't know anyone in Shanghai.

she is afraid of being controlled,

with nothing,

she is afraid of losing her direction.

when it comes to material things and love,

you must have enough to eat before you have the spirit of falling in love.

 

some of the boys I know are no sense of security either.

try to be nice to a girl wholeheartedly, but there are plenty of people who have been tricked into making a lot of money by some girls.

so boys who have been cheated,

are always afraid to enter the pit again.

this is a society where men also lack a sense of security,

so self-reliant women are more favored.


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then I can greet love with radiance.

I have seen some girls.

I think that love can be tied with youth.

there is nothing but a youth.

A college classmate I know

found a boyfriend with a good family after graduation.

while she continued to do intensive work,

she said that spending time with her boyfriend is not to spend his money.

I have my sense of security only because I am financially independent.

I can still live without him.

Why should I let my retreat change?

when she said this after she was dumped by her boyfriend,

borrowed money from a friend to take a taxi home.

We can't guarantee that

every man we meet is reliable.

but what you give yourself,

Women's insecurity stems to a large extent from their lack of independence.

sense of security is not given by others, it is brought with you.

being independent in character and economy

is the largest source of the sense of security.

my girlfriend told me the other day that

her Hong Kong boyfriend asked her to go to Shanghai after graduating from England.

she is a girl from Dalian and doesn't know anyone in Shanghai.

she is afraid of being controlled,

with nothing,

she is afraid of losing her direction.

when it comes to material things and love,

you must have enough to eat before you have the spirit of falling in love.

some of the boys I know are no sense of security either.

try to be nice to a girl wholeheartedly, but there are plenty of people who have been tricked into making a lot of money by some girls.

so boys who have been cheated,

are always afraid to enter the pit again.

this is a society where men also lack a sense of security,

so self-reliant women are more favored.


Huijin  helps you increase your asset return and

helps you pursue financial independence.