I am afraid that after I forget you, I will have no memories to remember.

We always do this, because we care too much, so we are afraid of joys and sorrows, quarrels and accidents, birth, old age, sickness, and death. And life is often like this, in all kinds of fear to complete the life.

Wen /Shen Shanshu

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in love, the more tightly we love, the more afraid we are of losing each other. Perhaps, it is because of lack of confidence, worried that each other will not be able to take a lifetime to bear the joys and sorrows given by each other. My friend Maggie has been in a long-distance relationship with her current boyfriend for almost a year. Maggie is a very sensitive girl with cool short hair. She is more afraid of losing her boyfriend than anyone else. She and her boyfriend have known each other for a long time and know each other's names, but they just lack a chance. Until once, she was sitting in a taxi and happened to meet him. Because our city here is too small, let her meet him dramatically. Then, he asked her for Wechat, so he embarked on the journey of love. Maggie's boyfriend is a bar singer, and the first time I heard him sing was "cruel Moonlight". That night, he sang affectionately, word by word, and his eyes fell on maggie. I looked at maggie, with tears in his eyes. When Maggie's boyfriend went to another bar, Sing, she told me a lot. It was probably due to the effect of alcohol, and when we talked about it later, we all cried. She told me in tears: "I want to put aside all the marriage with him, but know that each other has their future." In the meantime, Maggie lit a cigarette and smoked it slowly. Through the blurred lights of the bar, watching her smoking posture, too lonely, too lonely. I lay on the table listening to her talking to herself, thinking, as long as it is infatuated, let us sink. "maybe I'm not the one who married and had children with him. I can't spend my whole life washing and cooking for him and nagging him, and he'll meet her who is prettier and more sensible than me. However, I am really satisfied that I have been in love like this. " She raised her head and pretended to smile, but tears had already fallen. Then, with a little choking, maggie said, "you don't know, we all love each other too hard and care too much about each other, so we are more afraid of losing each other." He and I are very similar in many places, but the similarity is a very painful thing because the things we care about are the same, and the harm is the same. He said that I was the right person he had ever met in my life. Although many people say that long-distance relationships will come to an end, we don't talk about the future, we don't talk about the past, we only cherish the present. However, after he came back, I was still afraid of losing. Every time he hugged me more tightly, the more afraid I was of losing him, I would never have such a gentle hug again. " As soon as she finished, I immediately thought of two words, binding. In love, there is no shortage of sweetness, what is missing is how to give each other proper tightness. Because you care about each other because you love so much that you wish there was only one other left in the world. So, you are afraid of losing the other person, so you are restrained, so you never leave, so you forget to make some privacy for the other person. However, the premise of love must trust each other. Sometimes, caring too much will accidentally turn into harm. There is nothing wrong with wanting to possess each other, but you have forgotten that love is also a TV series and has advertising time, so you have to spare some time for each other. Remember, love is always today, don't indulge in yesterday, don't create momentum tomorrow. 

Our life is short because the life you are living is so beautiful that you are afraid of the passage of time. Say long, because you put everything that has happened to endure, so hope that those lonely early in the past. Whether it is joy or sorrow, there will be parting. If the water overflows, the flowers will fail, not to mention love. There are always unexpected things that happen in life. Therefore, it is better to cherish the present with the attitude of being drunk today. Tomorrow can be looked forward to, but not addicted to, not ostentatious because the promise of life after life belongs to the time of youth. Once upon a time, I thought the saddest thing was to indulge in memories and indulge in the past. But now, I just know, for the faint pain of the past, it is not that I do not want to forget, but I am afraid that after forgetting, there will be no memories to remember. You know, it's painful to forget someone and care about someone. The story of Maggie reminds me of a person. I am also careful to keep that person in my heart. I dare not open my mouth to express my thoughts, but also because I care too much, am too afraid of losing, and am afraid that I can't even be a friend. Because humble relationships have never been fulfilled. For some things, we are often asked if we still remember, we always like to say, can not remember, forget. I haven't forgotten at all. As long as you don't want to forget, you will never forget. We will only find all kinds of excuses to cover up our wounds, cover up our fragility, and make others feel that we live calmly and unrestrained. Those people and things that have happened and do not want to forget are always in my heart. 

And know how warm and cold you are. Don't be afraid of you in love. Although you know that there will be parting, there will be a loss, but you have to choose desperately to love, to protect, to risk your life, even if it will be bruised all over, even if it will fall into a deep valley, but you will have no regrets if you can have a heart-wrenching love this time. Because you know, we have missed too much, so we should cherish today, cherish the present. As long as you cherish the present, cherish every day, perhaps, accidentally will go to the end of life. We have always been like this because we care too much, so we are afraid of joys and sorrows, quarrels, birth, old age, sickness, and death. And life is often like this, in all kinds of fear to complete the life.