How long did it take you to give up on someone?

I was pouring the whole bucket of clothes into the washing machine when I heard the school radio broadcast "desolation". "Let me slowly lose heart to you for half a year". After going back to the dormitory, I leaned against the corridor railing and sent a text message to Chen, who had not been in touch for a long time. "I used to wear headphones and regard 'light heart' as the Bible, but today I dare to refute him. It takes half a year to slowly lose heart to a person. It only takes a moment for a person to give up. Once he takes time to lose heart, he just deceives himself that he has forgotten it under the premise that he does not appear temporarily. What does he say when he appears in front of you tomorrow? What do you still believe? he says the moon is square, and you nod abruptly. "

how a person's heart is cool, it is not the ten hours at the railway station that gradually cool down, but the instant crash of a message like ice water. Put it out, for a moment.

Last night I saw a lying topic on an app that I had stopped using for a long time, and he asked, what was the last sentence between you?

"I overslept"

"it's okay, I'm leaving."

A year later a friend pushed me a song before leaving Chengdu. Zhao Lei's Chengdu told me a story. He said, "I probably won't come here again." At that time, I was in the communication study. I sat in the last row and put on headphones. Zhao Lei cycled the song many times. Zhao Lei sang "you will hold my sleeve, I will put my hand in my trouser pocket, and I will walk to the end of Yulin Road and sit at the door of the tavern." I sang so well. I fantasized about this picture, but it will never happen to me. I didn't tell him about it, nor did I tell him that I had been to Chengdu.

in the future, my friends asked me to visit many places. I said yes, Wuhan, Chongqing or Changsha. Only when it comes to Chengdu, I will say, another one.

A few days later, Neil found out that his boyfriend was cheating on him, and he insisted on the principle that "I cheated, I won't break up, I'm not wrong." Neil said I'll give you a month to figure it out and come back to me. I haven't been in touch for a month, and I haven't heard anything. Until Neil couldn't stand the mental torture and ran downstairs to his house and asked him, do you want to break up? The boyfriend said if you want to break up, break up. So he went back into the house and slammed the door, perfectly dug a big hole of "your breakup, your fault, I don't have to feel guilty," and watched her jump.

but I didn't do anything, I just said, I know you'll be there, I won't stop you, you're an adult, this is your life, you figure it out.

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broke up with a playmate when he was ten years old, and he secretly did something wrong to himself. I was so sad that I cried all night and wrote a farewell letter and put it in the "old place", in a tree hole, waiting for the other party to receive it. My brother picked up the letter the next morning, and I asked him, "Why, I have given up on her and don't want to be friends with her." My brother told me that you didn't give up on her. if you give up, just walk away quietly instead of running up to her and saying, "Hey, you make me sad. I'm going to leave you." you think you've given up, but that's not the case. My brother bullied me from an early age, and that was the first time he reasoned with me.

it took me ten years to understand this. Every time we say we give up on a person, we will set up not to look at each other's moments, not to let each other see their moments, or even delete friends and contact information. it is nothing more than waiting for the other person to find out that "what I did made you very sad" and coming to tell you, "I'm sorry I was wrong. I'll be nicer to you later." We always give each other a chance, always think that he will turn back, always think that he will find here. You keep saying that you give up, but you still lean over intentionally or unintentionally when others talk about him, and then intentionally or unintentionally create the chance to encounter, intentionally or unintentionally, jump on it, say give up, and then pave a hundred ways to "how can I forgive you?" have you given up?

I am always disappointed in you and always creating hope.

but from that moment on, I had an idea that if it wasn't you, it wouldn't be you.

even if it is already very difficult to appear another person, it will make you feel that without him, the sky may fall.

I replied for the first time," what a coincidence ".