Girl, don't be a fake of Stefanie Sun and Lin Zhiling
Are you a pink girl or a blue girl?
have you ever seen that kind of bag? there are several kinds of logos on one bag at the same time, Chanel, Gucci, and Dior, for fear that others will not know that they are fakes. I want to be a bag like that.
recently, to buy gifts for a friend's baby, I searched the shopping mall for suitable baby goods. Not surprisingly, clothes, shoes, hats, and gloves are all adorable when they are shrunk tenfold. But after walking around, I found that except for the occasional black and white, most products come in only two colors: pink for girls and blue for boys. I secretly wondered how advanced the gender concept is in the United States.
finally, I didn't find a suitable gender-neutral gift, so I had to buy a pair of naked pink sneakers in the hope that she would be a little girl who loves sports.
in retrospect, my dislike of pink was almost a major visual theme of my adolescence. There is never anything pink in the wardrobe, so I can avoid seeing hello kitty.
according to my observation, our small city girls are divided into three categories when they are teenagers: 60% pink, 35% blue, and the remaining 5%, which is probably "I only love black and white".
pink girls can like SHE Jolin Tsai, Zhang Shaohan, and Wang Xinling, but we blue girls must be infatuated with Stefanie Sun. The short hair is messed up by the wind, and the vest is not afraid to show a flat figure. The eyes are confused, but the footsteps should be firm. To run, to flee, not only to find peace but also to fight against yourself.
Stefanie Sun has created a rare female image in Chinese music through her unique image and temperament, while we have found who we want to be in pop culture.
short hair is natural. Yearning for that kind of flat figure, I was devastated when I was developing in the second year of junior high school. She will also learn to speak like Stefanie Sun, who is different from the Taiwanese accent and can pronounce the back nasal sound obviously like speaking a foreign language. For a while in junior high school, I have to hand in essays every week. I will take the Mp3 single to cycle Stefanie Sun's song, a song brain to make up the whole plot of the play. He even had a crush on a male classmate because the arc of his gums was very much like Stefanie Sun.
the characteristic of our blue girls is that there are a hundred inner plays, but from the outside, there are only two words: simplicity. To put it harshly, it is ugly.
A friend and I described the impression I had when I first saw me in the hallway: fried hair, huge glasses, pale, short, bookish. It's irrefutable. I looked at her. Although she was a little fat, she had bangs, the kind of bangs that had been handled seriously and slanted to one side. "I'll be a beautiful woman when I lose weight," she told me. I nodded in agreement. The girl went to the liberal arts class in high school, where all the girls have bangs.
I am in the science class. The classroom is on the sixth floor. Go down three floors, to the liberal arts class, many pink girls, even that floor seems to be a little more fragrant than us. While we were stooping and trying to hide our developed breasts, the pink girls were already trimming their eyebrows, putting up double eyelid patches, and using a facial cleanser. It's not even about dressing up, it's about the soft smell of words and deeds. This is not to say that all liberal arts girls are like this, but there are more liberal arts girls, and the aggregation effect and the proportion of pink is also larger.
watching Lin Zhiling's interview a few days ago, she is so beautiful and gentle, and she is the number one pink girl in my heart. He was well educated, received kindness from others because of his beauty, and was taught to treat others kindly and appropriately, and always smile. That kind of whine voice also makes people feel only sweet in Lin Chi-ling, who is in her forties. When the interviewer asked her if she would be bothered by the question that others only saw her beauty, she thought about it and smiled graciously: it's not my problem, so it won't bother her.
in my twenties, I began to think pink was a little cute. I bought pink schoolbags, earrings, socks and so on. I also seem to know something about being a girl. Clean up before going out, don't use foul language casually (especially don't use foul language and open yellow language to impress your favorite male students), don't roll your eyes immediately when you hear you disagree, and you can politely and politely express dissenting opinions. Well, it feels like these are just the basic self-cultivation of social people.
get rid of the foot-stingy era of fooling around with boys, and they will gradually get comments such as being very polite and cute. Of course, I will be proud. After all, I have been praised. However, it's boring to be a docile hello kitty and be liked because of it. Moreover, women like us, who are born plain and not sweet enough, can't let lovely boys remember us without saying some playful and mean words.
in this way, after a brief pink cosplay, I understood myself: I am an attack! A 158-tall, pussy dwarf attack! If you want to attack, you may face failure, you know, sadness is always inevitable. At this time, I put a pocket on my fingertips, pretended to spit out a smoke ring, and sighed melancholy: Gee, I didn't get it.
the so-called pink and blue series are rough ideal types. The queer theory says that what we call masculinity and femininity is just an imitation of an ideal type that does not exist. As imitators, we are fakes or even fakes. Pink is a traditional female image, while blue defines itself by opposing pink.
Real individuals are much more complex and richer than these tags. Just like the media image of Stefanie Sun and Lin Zhiling is only part of their true personality. You see, how paradoxical, blue Stefanie Sun is confirmed to have a second child, pink Lin Chi-ling is still gently single.
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now looking back, my gender identity awakening moment may be the second-hand Foucault I encountered in the undergraduate library. Through translation, through interpretation, Foucault said to me: to create yourself as your most important work of art, to invent and create yourself.
enlightened.
people often say that they have found themselves and returned to their original selves as if there is a complete self waiting for them somewhere. Foucault is smart. He says "strong" doesn't have any original self at all. You have to create
whether Stefanie Sun or Lin Chi-ling, a romantic girl addicted to love, a gentle wife who teaches her husband and son, and a career woman on her own, these may all become templates for a certain period, but only in the process of struggling, debugging, and rebelling against these templates can we invent ourselves. A complex and unique fake girl.