Every major event in my life, I wish I had you by my side.

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our love and life have not experienced extreme tests.

of course, we don't want to test love with natural and man-made disasters and hard life.

all stories have a happy ending, if not, then the story should not be over yet. But people live all their lives, ah, who doesn't know what happens, what problems they encounter, and whether there is that person by their side to accompany us through one after another when they encounter these things.

Europe is a bit of a mess. I've never dared to go by myself. One of my best friends, Jun Min, was studying in England. As soon as she and her boyfriend left Nice, France, there was a riot in Nice, France. The street that had just walked was littered with dead bodies. When their plane landed safely in England, the whole plane was applauding for being alive. That sense of security is a craving.

is still in France. Another good friend of mine, Matsuko, told me that when she was in the gym, her classmate and her boyfriend happened to have experienced the riot that was shot by ak47 at the stadium. The girl was so desperate that she was usually afraid of hitting the thunder, but her boyfriend gave her a full sense of security in a foreign country. In the crowded crowd, she was dispersed, all the people were running out, only her boyfriend rushed back and grabbed her who had been dispersed. the moment he was grabbed by his hand, the most important thing about living so big and sense of security was the safety of life. Want to put this life in his hands, a kind of dependence, all emerged at that moment.

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sense of security is an interesting thing.  

this is a kind of desire and expectation when we become the weak one.

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I once had a diving experience, a bit like the heroine in the movie me before you, I refused to go into the water dead or alive. Because in my childhood, I once had the shadow of being bitten by a snake for swimming. When I first learned to swim, I didn't think about the fluidity and accidents of the sea. Once in the sea of Rizhao in Shandong Province, I played and jumped waves. As a result, as a result of stepping on kelp, the soles of my feet slipped, slipping deeper and deeper, feeling suffocated for the first time, and my eyes saw the sky through the sea but powerlessly lost sense of security and struggled desperately. Later, my father found that I fished it out, and then I was very scared and depressed as soon as I got into the water.

that diving was something I thought I would never experience, but unexpectedly, after learning about my psychological obstacles, the diving instructor's hand kept holding my hand and gave me a huge sense of security. Physical help is a kind of inherent comfort, because of him, I slowly overcome psychological obstacles throughout the process, knowing that he is by my side, there is full trust and sense of security.

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when a person can give us sense of security, it's easy to have an inexplicable dependence on that person, which is very likely to make us fall in love with someone.

but things like sense of security are relative again. We have weak times, because there are stronger people around us, but if we are in difficult circumstances, we will also find that sometimes we are stronger than we think. Sense of security is a kind of responsibility, we can't always ask for protection from others, we should also become the source of sense of security for others.

I once went to the mountains of Beijing to photograph some children, and for two days I ate and lived with them, and only then did I understand their situation. For a person who lacks sense of security so much, seeing their eyes makes me want to protect them very much. Children as a weak party, they need our help very much, need us to provide them with psychological sense of security, first from the entrance of the body, but also the entrance of life: water, start. The biggest sense of security is the clean water and food that enters the body.

Unilever | small action, big difference | held a public welfare activity called "Clean Water for a long time". As the video says, a "drinkable book" allows children to drink safe and healthy filtered water quickly. The book's founder, Theresa Dankovich, made a long visit to polluted water sources and created a 26-page book that Filter can remove 2600 liters of bacteria from drinking water.

We can all make a modest contribution for them to make their little bodies more full of sense of security, because of our efforts. Pure and safe water is daily for us, but for them, it is a luxury. We can't just be spectators and help them. It all has something to do with you and me.

the closest distance between you and the public welfare is a click to read the original text. One click from you can help them drink clean water. I hope we can all become people who give sense of security to others.

fin.

We may not be tall enough, and

may not be particularly rich,

but sense of security is an aura, and

is a firm stand in our decision to do something worthy of admiration.

sense of security is always given to each other.