Blame me for caring too much about what other people think.

you have to shake your head and do some beautiful movements.

then tie up the action into a picture,

as your hostage, as your lover.

| Elfried Jelinek |

1.

I haven't written anything in the past two days. After thinking about something I don't have, I decided to write it down and talk to you.

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to tell you the truth, when a person is exposed to the vision of more and more people, it is easy to be commented by different people, and it is also easy to affect his mood because of the remarks of others.

yesterday I saw an article about a Weibo blogger sharing some articles he wrote every day. Many people like him, but there was also some cyber violence. He was inexplicably scolded. However, he went through some time from being sad at the beginning to ignoring it.

Why should you care about the anger of those who are not important? just care about those who like you.

after all, everyone has his own way of living, right?

2.

I chatted with a friend yesterday.

she said that she was so tired at work now that she was so busy that she wanted to work overtime to cut films until 04:00 at night.

have you ever seen the sun at four or five o'clock in the morning in Beijing? I'm sure most media workers have seen it.

she told me yesterday that she is now considering changing her job or going back to her hometown to study language and go abroad.

I gave her some simple advice, but I finally told her that other people's suggestions were all for reference, and the answer came out naturally when I knew what I wanted in my heart.

it's hard to say that we are not indecisive people. When making decisions, everyone likes to listen to the opinions of others.

it's like flipping a coin. The moment you toss it, you know which side you want, so the answer is the answer you want in your heart.

so sometimes I like to use these simple forms to decide things.

it doesn't matter which side of the coin represents anything, what matters is the result you want when you flip the coin.

3.

everyone has their own unspeakable difficulties.

this is more true after graduation.

A few days ago, I chatted with my best friend in France and asked her how she was doing recently. She said that she was about to graduate and went to an interview with a local company in France. With less social experience, she was usually fluent in French. She told me that she had been going to school to avoid work and was afraid of facing society. I think this is a problem that many people will face. When I was looking for a job last year, my friend in Canada told me: foreigners look for a job through the back door, and the situation is not as fair as going north to Guangzhou. A best friend in Britain complains that the exam season is coming again, and sometimes she still doesn't understand in class. Another best friend in Britain is interning in two places, hoping to get a visa for graduation. A friend of mine who works in art in Shanghai, many people envy this girl's work, very glamorous, once chatted with me, she laughed at herself, "I do not have to pay tax on my monthly salary," I said, how much is your rent? She said, 3300.

all in all, we all have unknown and unspeakable difficulties.

when we look at others, we always magnify the easy side of other people's lives.

when we look at ourselves, we always magnify the difficult side of our lives.

so we always feel sorry for ourselves and are not very happy every day.

in fact, what you see is what other people want you to see, just as you want others to see that you are doing well.

compare what others want you to see and compare what you don't want others to see. It's going to be frustrating, isn't it?

the good news is that my friends all live hard without complaining. It's good to be like a little sun every day.