Before you love, you must have the strength of your lover.

1.

W posted a lot of status in moments. I clicked in to see his home page but found that there was no one left.

in our last conversation, he still complained to me about his girlfriend. He asked me, "what if someone doesn't reply to him all the time?" He said that he felt that he had given too much and too much initiative in this relationship. He said a lot about how his girlfriend could be so inconsiderate, how could his girlfriend be so cold, and how nice he was to his girlfriend. Finally, he seemed to be a little embarrassed and asked me, "am I too sense of security-free?"

in fact, in the eyes of many people, W's condition is very good, and many girls want to be his girlfriend. Even his current girlfriend takes the initiative to like him. But after falling in love, W became self-abased for no reason. He was not satisfied with his figure and told me to lose weight. In the dinner photos posted on moments, there was only a bowl of salad and water.

when we meet, if we praise him for losing weight, he will be very happy. He always said, "if I lose weight, do I have to worry about my girlfriend ignoring me?"

maybe he will because he doesn't dare to love before he loves others. The most important thing in a relationship is not an economic base, a physical match, or a harmonious personality, but that two people make the same effort in this relationship, like a tug-of-war.

I remember when I was in love, a girlfriend came to see me from LA. She lived in Shangri-La and asked me to drink and chat with her at night. I asked my boyfriend to take me to the hotel without telling him who he was meeting, and he didn't ask me.

then I asked him curiously, "aren't you worried that I'm dating other guys?"

he said, "because I trust you very much."

the best love relationship is that you can trust each other.

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2.

recently, my friend Amway watched the TV series "the first half of my Life". After watching a few episodes, I felt very impressed. In the relationship between Chen Junsheng and Zijun, Zijun relied on Chen Junsheng for everything, thinking only of shopping and cosmetology every day, and even explained to his son the meaning of "cornea" with "foot mask".

in this relationship, Luo Zijun is very weak. She and her best friend imagined what to do if her husband had an affair. Her answer was, "what can I do? fight with him and die for him."

she has nothing in her hand. in the eyes of discerning people, if Chen Junsheng abandons her, she has nothing. Before her lover, she also graduated from college and won a job in a foreign company, but after getting married, she gave up the strength she should have. After Chen Junsheng had an affair, he was powerless to resist.

there are a lot of people who may fall into such a strange circle for the rest of their lives. Every day, he thinks nervously about whether the other half will have an affair when he will go home, and whether there is anyone outside to seduce him. Their sense of security reminds them all the time that if the person in front of them is gone, they will have nothing.

Love yourself before you love. Only when you have enough self-confidence and courage can you stand in front of him and talk about fairness. I love you, you love me, I pay for you, you sacrifice for me, love should be equal, not one side begging.

when Chen Junsheng and Zijun asked for a divorce, she said, "I'm going to get some water until I get back."

Zijun stood in the kitchen with no water in the drinking fountain or cup. She hurriedly went to pick up the water and boil it. When the water boiled, there was only the ping-pong sound of kitchen utensils in the huge room. She stood in front of the stove, crying hard from her throat, mingled with the hum of boiling water.

the narrator says:

We want to go back to that warm and peaceful place, but we can never go back.

good night, you and the world.