Baby, don't be too tired, mom, you are the only child.
You're everything to mom.
the parents who suffer from the hair and skin of the body
dare not destroy it.
| filial piety
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1.
at the end of last year, I had not yet returned to Beijing, and I was writing manuscripts in my house every day.
it was about three o'clock in the morning, and I was still in a hurry to finish an article.
while one of my roommates is still editing the next film to be shown, another roommate is doing the guest schedule for the music festival.
three people in the same room are still working overtime when it is going to clear up.
the only consolation is that we all work overtime at home.
about four o'clock, I finally finished my manuscript and posted a circle of friends saying that I could finally go to bed. I didn't know whether to say good morning or good night.
I have never grouped into groups in moments, and I will never block my family.
after posting this circle of friends, a staff member of the company replied to me below. Brother Yue, I have just finished working overtime from the company, and I have to rotate tomorrow. At that time, I thought that this girl was even worse than us. At least there was a bed next to us after overtime. Lying down can sleep, but she can only rest on her stomach in the company and have to continue the next day.
after replying to her, I found that my mother sent me a WeChat saying, "Why are you sleeping? my mother has been waiting for you." I was still worried about her at that time. I said, why are you still up? you sleep with yours.
my mother replied to me: you didn't sleep, my mother couldn't sleep.
at that time, I thought that maybe only your parents could stay up with you in this way and work overtime with you.
my mother said you are in Beijing, I am not with you, I can not put food in your mouth, or pass you fruit milk, or something. Ask me, do you have cushions on your waist, drink water, don't plug in the power before going to bed, and then send me a lot of, for example, work schedules for various organs of the body at night, when and where you need to rest, and you can't stay up late. It's tantamount to chronic suicide.
I didn't expect that on the night when I worked overtime in a foreign land,
my mother and I were in the same time zone and had no jet lag.
Mom is in the same time zone as you are.
2.
my family waits for me to send an official account at 10:30 every day, especially my mother. As long as I send an official account, my mother will share it at the first moment on moments, no matter whether my questions are obscene or weird.
once, I saw my mother click on an article from me back and forth. I said, Mom, what are you doing? her hand still didn't stop, and then she told me, "I'll increase your reading volume."
(this is my mother's circle of friends)
my mother can even spend a few days saying how many times I have read the previous issue. My mother will wear presbyopic glasses to read every message and comment every day. If she doesn't wear glasses, she will hold her phone far away so that her presbyopia can see clearly.
sometimes I dare not let her read the comments, for fear that she will see any bad comments and be sad, so basically, I will only give her a good massage. She doesn't know anything about cyber violence, and she will only say sadly, alas, in this world, there are all kinds of people, how can it be like this? But most of them are good comments, my mother said. there are still many good people.
every time the number of articles read reaches 100,000, my family will take screenshots in the family's WeChat group, and everyone will applaud and say that more and more 100,000 will be added, and every time more than 90,000, my mother will stay up late waiting for screenshots.
I didn't expect that many things I didn't have time for
turned out to be a little lucky in the eyes of my family and cheered for me.
We are the only child, all of them, and their focus is all on us.
so they want to be the first to witness every little achievement we make.
3.
once I went out with two friends, a boy, and two girls.
in the evening, one of the girls' parents and her parents' friends got off the high-speed railway at Beijing South Railway Station, so we accompanied her to pick them up. In the evening, the uncles and aunts invited us to dinner.
after dinner, one of the aunts looked at us and said, look at how good the children are, the girls are so beautiful, the boys are tall, and we are all smiling happily. She asked if you were all only children. We all said yes. We asked how old we were. We said it was 1992. We asked if our parents were all in their hometown, or did they come to Beijing to accompany us? we said they were all in their hometown. We also don't want them to come to Beijing with us to suffer. The houses we rent are not very big, and we all share them with friends. Sometimes we even work late and don't order takeout for the Rest of three meals a day. At this stage, I don't want them to worry.
Auntie went on to say, my son is a little older than you. He is 89 years old. He is handsome and works very well. It makes me feel at ease and is as obedient and sensible as you. With that, he began to turn through the mobile phone photo album to show us, we brought it to see, indeed, a very sunny big boy, the smile is very good-looking, but also tall. We all asked if the handsome guy was in Beijing, we could hang out and have dinner together, and then the aunt said he was gone.
We all thought that the boy was no longer in Beijing, and we all said it was good to go home. I'm so happy.
Auntie went on to say, "I wish he could go home. He is too enterprising and insists on starting a business. He doesn't have Rest for many days, clouds of smoke and drinks, and suddenly happens in his small studio."Died of a heart attack.
the atmosphere becomes very dignified, we do not know what to say,
at this time all the comfort is superfluous.
Auntie did not cry, saying that you are all only children, all of your parents, you must not be too hard and too tired, you must pay attention to your body, do not stay up late, be obedient.
when we succeed, our family will be proud of us;
but even if we don't succeed, we will be proud of our parents.
when I left, my aunt stared at the boy we went with a smile for a long time, and then her eyes became a little moist. The aunt said, "it's nice, young man, have you been in love?" he said, "you have to live a good life. But if my son is still alive, he can't get married. He's a career kid. He's always disobedient. You have to be obedient."
4.
my mother has a colleague. Let's call her Aunt w for the time being. Aunt
w is now in her fifties and over 50 years old.
Aunt w's daughter is very beautiful, but her daughter's life is always in her twenties.
We were also shocked when we heard that her daughter went to KTV Sing all night for her friend's birthday. As a result, in the early hours of the next morning, she directly received a call from her daughter's friend in the hospital. By the time Aunt w arrived, her daughter was gone.
is also an only child.
over the past many years, my mother and many friends dare not mention their children in front of Aunt w, because once when Aunt w saw another aunt with her daughter, she asked, has her daughter found a boyfriend? How's business? The aunt said, well, the daughter is going to get married and will have children after marriage. Aunt W said, "it's good to be a grandmother. You're blessed to be a grandmother." The aunt joked that, alas, she was always disobedient, making me angry, and hurriedly married to her mother-in-law's house, so I didn't have to worry about it. Aunt W said that if her daughter were around, she would keep her by her side every day. Hearing what she said, the aunt did not dare to say anything to stimulate her. Aunt
w has been a test-tube baby for many years without success.
now she will travel abroad soon.
but even if she is distracted, it will not dispel her and her wife's lonely death.
fin.
the story is written here, it is already three o'clock in the morning.
I believe that in the 1980s and 1990s, we all had a one-child card in our hands.
that not only means that we enjoy the love and everything of our parents, but also that we are all our parents.
if we are lost, our parents will have nothing.
the risk they are taking is a 100% bet.
for the sake of our families,
remember to relax a little bit in the pursuit of success and money;
remember to hold down the fire when you are angry unnecessarily, don't conflict with dangerous people;
Don't do anything that may hurt your body.
remember that from now on, stay up late, eat spicy food all night, play games all night, don't smoke and drink, don't go to nightclubs, don't lose weight, exercise, drink more water, eat more fruit, eat normal meals, regular schedule, and take care of your body.
the skin of the body is damaged by the parents, but they dare not destroy it.
We have been their little heroes since the moment we were born.
if we want to make their lives better, we should cherish ourselves instead of making money regardless of our health, not to mention unnecessary games, nightclubs, and social activities.
some things harm the body, of course, we can choose not to go, but most people will choose to go.
I just want to say that I hope everyone can be kind to themselves.
because our health is the greatest capital of filial piety to them.