A letter to graduates

A letter to the graduates. Are you ready to leave campus and go into society?

Dear graduates:

thinking that you are looking forward to /worrying about your new life at this time, I inevitably go back to the time when I graduated many years ago: everything was blurred. We can't wait, as if all our wishes must be fulfilled immediately, or we can't stand it: a good job, a good lover, and then a good marriage. Our generation is so desperate to settle down that it is not clear that life is unimaginably long and surprisingly short at the same time.

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after many years, all my life experiences come not from myself, but others. I saw the emptiness, boredom, and repeated dilemmas faced by others after they had pursued the perfect life they longed for at that time. At this time, everyone is in their 30s.

the strange thing is that no matter how lonely, hard and hopeless you are in your 20s, most people are still living a good life after they are in their 30s. Even no matter how determined single women feel they are going to die alone at the age of 29, most of them solve the problem before the age of 35 and even quickly get pregnant and have children. The frustration and despair that I worried about when I was young did not happen in the end. Something even worse happened: a friend with a happy family, a successful job, and a second child suddenly told me that she felt that "life is meaningless and fun."

almost all the friends around me are faced with this: when you have a good job, a house and a partner, life are not easier, but more difficult to be happy. When we first graduated in our early 20s, our hard work was full of hope, but in our 30s, no matter how easy the work was it was difficult to satisfy us anymore.

people are faced with new bottlenecks: the bottleneck of work, the bottleneck of life. "maybe I can still get a promotion, but in fact, I don't envy my boss at all." There are fewer and fewer things to tempt us, so many people would rather do something dangerous: ingenious infidelity, or impractical entrepreneurship.

when I saw the plight of my peers and the desire to break through, I realized that when we were in our 20s, we were just eager to find ourselves a comfortable cage. We are used to primary school, junior high school, high school, and college. This school system requires itself so much that it cannot adapt to freedom. When we come to the social life that we can control, we still want to be limited and affirmed by some mechanism, so we don't know exactly what we want to do. And when we get to a certain level of comfort in this mechanism, we find that everything seems to have gone wrong: we don't understand the world, nor do we know ourselves.

what is even more peculiar is that although your generation is richer and seems freer, it has lost its ability to be independent to some extent. To travel and enjoy, to some extent, is not a symbol of freedom, but another imaginary life.

so, if you want to give some experience that is not pleasant to hear or practical, my view at this time is: the sooner you determine your real interest, the better, no matter what the interest is. The sooner you find an ideal that you can stand on and fight for it, even if you become a carpenter, it is best to find a master now. After many years, you will find that as long as you have something in your heart that you are willing to give, your life is focused, you can get real satisfaction, and you can continue to inject hope into your life. Family, work, and to be honest, will not be able to support you through a long and boring life in the end, especially when you get older and the only thing that can support you is your unquenchable fire at the bottom of your heart.

find your anchor and sail out to sea.

Happy & nbsp