"some post-90s are still being urged by their parents to find a partner, and some of them are ready to divorce for the second time."

"some post-90s are still being urged by their parents to find a partner, and some of them are ready to divorce for the second time."

How soon you fall in love, you forget all about it.

A friend of mine, post-90s, is preparing to get divorced for the second time recently. This marriage has been less than a year since her last one.

Zhihu has a question:

what do you think of the rising divorce rate in the post-90s?

the description of the problem is as follows:

as early as 2012, the divorce cases of the post-50s and post-60s have disappeared, the post-70s have become the main force of divorce, the post-80s have become the new force of divorce, and now the post-90s have also stepped onto the "historical stage". According to statistics released by Guangzhou Haizhu District Court on October 16, 2012, from January to early September 2012, the court accepted a total of 625 divorce cases, of which 11 were "post-90s".

some post-90s are still being urged by their parents to find a partner, and some post-90s are ready to divorce for the second time.


that friend of mine married her second husband because they were pregnant during the relationship, and they spent less than half a year together, and they were still in the honeymoon period of "you see me beautiful, I see you handsome", because they got married by giving birth to their children, and there was a rift in their relationship after they got the license.

the man thinks that the woman does it, and the woman thinks that the man doesn't care about him before, so the girl with a big belly always quarrels with her husband, and the slightest thing can be the trigger between two people. Not long after giving birth to the child, the two signed the divorce agreement, which was extremely irresponsible to the child.

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now relationships are too easy to break. There is a saying that people want to repair things in the past when things are broken, and people want to replace things now when things are broken. There are a lot of emotional cracks, which are not fatal wounds, and many contradictions seem to be problems that can be communicated in hindsight, but they don't want to say no.

now the speed of entering a relationship is daunting. How soon you fall in love, you forget all about it. Often the two people who were with you two days ago changed their partners after a few days, still holding the same love words and dealing with the same routine.

for some reason, I think more and more young people no longer regard marriage as a very serious matter, as if entering marriage is tantamount to giving each other an explanation.

I know a boy who plans to marry his girlfriend at the end of the year because his family is pressing for it. The girlfriend didn't date for long, only because her family was satisfied, so she decided to marry her. I met him several times at a nightclub with different girls. He said, "I'm not ready to get married. I'm just doing a job for my family."

people who enter marriage without being ready are irresponsible for their feelings.

for some reason, there are always people (especially relatives) who like to exert emotional and moral pressure: it's time to get married, it's time to settle down, and it's time to be stable and ready to have children. When they say these words, they turn a blind eye to our own needs and status quo, as if people have to do certain tasks when they reach a certain age.

Marriage is different from love. Love can be a romance for two people, but marriage is the responsibility of two families. Some people are suitable for falling in love but cannot enter into marriage and take on another person's life. In a state of immaturity, two people rarely enter a family relationship, just like the bubble is getting bigger and bigger, and it will eventually burst.

the emotion I am looking forward to is having an independent and mature personality and the independent economic ability for each other. After both sides have decided to live a safe and stable life, I will say to the other: I would like to.

not everyone is fit to get married. We don't have to get married when we are old, and we can't hastily become a family members. In the process of changing from love to kinship, there are too many things that are not romantic and dreamy, and those things will be piled up in the wall of marriage and become a problem that two people must face.

I hope that one day in the future,

when I am ready,

when I can be accountable to you,

then let's get married.