"I want you to be on my side."

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when I didn't know her, I thought she had a lot of air and baggage. I heard all the stories about her from my friends around me. Arrogant, selfish, and difficult to get along with, this is what they told me about her, so when I heard that she was present at the dinner, I secretly pinched my sweat.

when I was having dinner a few days ago, I saw the girl who had been talking to her best friend after dinner. She was elegant, thin and tall, behaved appropriately, spoke appropriately, and had some boy-like personality, unlike the rumored person who was difficult to communicate with.

many people, when we don't know them, we always want to get information about him from others, but the same thing, from a different point of view, everyone interprets it differently. Each person has his position and needs, so the same plot can convey different meanings to different populations.

stop knowing me from other people's mouths.

I have also had it several times. After meeting some new friends, I learned from them that they had misunderstandings of me in one way or another. The root of these misunderstandings comes from the gossip of some people who have been with before, mixed with personal emotions and misleading stories, and become completely different from the original.

they were so surprised that they even said to me: I always thought you were that kind of person, but I didn't expect it.

when they were young, children liked to gang up when they got into trouble, desperately saying something bad to prove that the other person was a bad person, trying to make others think that the other person was not worth dating. Want to strive to get the support of more people, but also want more people to reject the object they reject, so they will add embellishments to many small things, out of context, and want to distinguish between the good and the bad.  

the older I grow up, the more I realize that human nature is a very complex thing, and there is no clear dividing line between good and bad. Everyone stands in a different position, and what they see is not entirely similar, so there are misunderstandings, misunderstandings, and estrangements.

Don't know a person from someone else's mouth.

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I have seen a movie before, Sharon Stone's instinct. The heroine wants to frame female No. 2 with the fact that she is crazy, so in the process of getting along with the male master, she imperceptibly instills in him that female No. 2 is a deranged and extreme person. When the hero found the confrontation between the two women, the second woman argued that the heroine was the one who was deranged and extreme and that the story told by the heroine to the hero as opposed to the truth. However, the hero at that time already had a preconceived idea that female No.2 was a bad person and shot her excitedly.

some misunderstandings may affect for a long time, and some relationships may deteriorate and alienate. Whether it is love, friendship, or family affection, every feeling is worthy of our heart to understand, care, care, understand everyone's difficulties, tolerate everyone's differences.

Don't get to know a person from someone else's mouth, because you don't know what happened between them, you don't know if there has been a misunderstanding between them, maybe because of your temporary misjudgment, you will miss a fate and lose someone worthy of your good treatment.

just keep three points of trust in what you hear. If you want to know someone, you need to get along, communicate, judge, and not let misunderstandings create unnecessary conflicts between you.

I have some friends around me who will not break up no matter what others say because we have a sense of trust between us, I trust him, he believes me, so we will not affect our opinion of each other because of what other people say. Such friends are very few, very rare, and are worth cherishing.

I hope that everyone can have such a person;

No matter what the rumors are about you outside, he will stand by you unswervingly.