"I hope you don't know me from others."
"I won't know you from other people's mouths. I need to touch and understand you myself."
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Mia is a friend I know in Melbourne.
she is magnificent, like Mavis Fan with long hair, and she is also very cheerful, but she is slow and hot, and it is not so easy to get acquainted with people, but as long as you get familiar with her, you will know how good she is. But if you don't know her, you will feel that she is very aloof and inaccessible. It can be said that she looks like this type of girl, which I particularly appreciate and like, but it is a pity that I am a straight girl, she is so charming.
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but no matter when and where, this kind of girl always causes a lot of controversies, slander of the same sex, and questions of the opposite sex, and only those who know and come into contact with her will know her true character.
she has been in two relationships, one for three years and the other for seven years, which took her entire youth, and then they broke up because they were not in a foreign country and their jobs were different. The most important thing is that the boy didn't have any sense of responsibility. For more than a year, she didn't find any more boyfriends, and October 15th was her 30th birthday.
when she was 29 years old, she told me that she was very disappointed in love. I also heard some rumors that her private life was chaotic, that she was unbearable, that she was still unmarried in her late 30s, and that she was always an older leftover woman with problems in some way, either physically or psychologically. But I know her character too well. I don't know where the slanderous words come from. Even some people who want to chase her dare not chase her when they hear what the people around her say, but she is free and free. I don't care about the gossip, and I'm not afraid of the shadow.
Last year, she met a boy who was very kind to her, and one of the words that moved her was: " I don't know you from other people's mouths. I need to get to know you myself." now they have been together for more than a year. On the 15th, the day she was 30, they were engaged.
not everyone can experience this kind of thing, but there are a lot of people who are experiencing some inexplicable misunderstanding or complete ignorance of your noise. They indeed feel uncomfortable, but if they don't care, these noises are not so important.
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noise is like the worst verbal attack on you in life.
when you want to have a good rest,
conquer your peace and make people upset.
and all we can do is press one thing to eliminate noise and strengthen our hearts.
once I was sitting in front of my cafe when three junior high school students came in. One girl was slightly fat in black-rimmed glasses and braces, while the other two boys were always laughing and bullying her. Girls don't talk. I reminded the two boys not to bully girls like this. Later, when I saw that my friends held activities, I also met such boys and girls, and the girls were self-abased and timid.
this reminds me of my junior high school. junior high school is a period of girls' psychological construction for beauty. I am a very self-abased and sensitive person in junior high school. freckles are also called pockmarked faces by several boys. At that time, they were a little flat, and they always bullied me, laughed at me, and dragged my schoolbag to knock me down. Later, when I began to dress myself up and began to change, my heart gradually became strong. I knew I didn't accept the noise, which made me more confident to focus on myself.
Last month, I ran into the students who bullied me in the pub in my hometown. I could see their embarrassment. I sat down to chat. They saw that I was doing well and heard that they were living very well. He added me, to Wechat. When I got home in the evening, I received one of his Wechat: "strong> I was always bullying you at that time. I'm sorry."
and I'm sure he can also read this article.
I know he also follows my official account.
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recently, when I watched "China has Hip Hop", it was not the contestants who impressed me most, but Wu Yifan. It can be said that Wu Yifan was a fan of Wu Yifan thoroughly. I have to say that when he made his debut, many gossips slandered him. Although they will encounter all kinds of negative voices, they should also eliminate the restless voice to make your thoughts clearer. Although many people are talking about him, he has been focused on his music career, his attitude, and dedication to music as I saw that "disobedient" myself:
everyone has the process of suffering doubts and setbacks,
but at the same time, it is also a process of growing stronger.
the important thing is to pay attention to your heart. Sometimes all you need is a pair of Beats Studio3 Wireless noise reduction headphones to get away from the sharpest and most impatient noise in the world. The city is busy with traffic, hustle and bustle, life is busy and in a hurry, wear Beats Studio3 Wireless, to block external interference, enjoy the music experience, and enter the world of "disobedience".
Wu Yifan also chooses the attitude of "disobeying noise". In the face of public opinion and noise from the outside world, rejects the noise and listens to his heart. Beats Studio3 Wireless noise reduction headset turns on noise reduction function and lasts for 22 hours. Turn it off. The denoising function can last for 40 hours. At any time to turn on noise reduction, a button can make us better into a quiet state, for me, cut off the noise of children on the high-speed train this is simply an artifact, worry-free, you will try to know, press that moment, the world will be much cleaner, the heart of manic depression will be much more peaceful.