"can you pay some for me, too?"

"can you pay some for me, too?"

If both people play the role of being spoiled in a relationship, the relationship will not last long.

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A lot of girls want to be able to find someone who is very mature and stable, and then they can act willfully around him, be spoiled, and be happy all the time as a child.

this is of course a very good idea. Who doesn't want to be a child? no matter boys or girls, everyone wants to be a passively loved person in a relationship, and they all want to be loved unconditionally. They all want to enjoy the feeling of being spoiled and emotionally wanton.

but if both people play the role of being spoiled in a relationship, the relationship will not last long.

YY and S are a seemingly well-matched couple. YY is typically rich and handsome, and there is no shortage of little girls courting him, and he also knows his conditions, so he always passively accepts the goodwill of others; S is very beautiful, is a popular small Internet celebrity, she talks coquettish, there are a lot of little brothers who want to chase her in Wechat.

S told me that she and YY often quarreled over trifles.

she knew very well that she was very good at it, and she couldn't bear to see why he didn't refuse decisively when so many little girls were nice to YY. The boys who used to pursue themselves held her in their hands like a goddess, for fear that if she left, they wouldn't dare to chat with other girls in front of her.

S got angry, so he poured out all the dirty words and ugly words to YY, YY even more angrily. He thought his peach blossom was so good, and he had already decided to choose S to be so ignorant. He only knew how to make noise and work, so he slammed the door and left angrily and told S not to bother him again.

S told me this story, she said: we are both emotional children, do not know how to compromise and understand, so both of us are very naive, and will always be naive.

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this kind of relationship is not uncommon. The two people make a big fuss about some indifferent trifles, struggle with those conflicts that are not salty, and finally exaggerate and destroy the relationship. Love is based on two immature minds, no one has the opportunity to learn to understand, to understand, to love.  

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if possible, I would like to love someone who can make me mature, not the kind of maturity that suddenly grows up after being injured, but has experienced a lot of difficulties and grievances, and is also willing to believe that the other person wants to face it with each other.

in him, I learned to control my emotions, to grasp more important things, to manage my feelings carefully, and to be more considerate of each other's feelings. by his side, I will slowly become a gentle person.

if you can meet someone who makes you mature, confident and confident, I think he is a very suitable person for you. Two people are bound to experience setbacks and contradictions more or less in their relationship, and there is no 100% match between the two souls, but they can cultivate a tacit understanding with each other in the process of common experience and face.

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knows the secret behind each other's joys and sorrows;  

wants to protect each other's emotions as much as possible;

Love, though not so selfless, has relative sacrifice and giving.

if I can, I want to love someone who can make me mature. He can show me the scenery I have neglected, and make me feel the atmosphere I have never experienced before. His appearance lights up a lamp in my heart, and I can see myself clearly through the light.

when I am by his side, I can know what kind of person I am. Only then can I know that I can be so happy when I am happy, and I don't have to carry grievances alone when I am sad.

he doesn't need to teach me how to grow up. I volunteer to be considerate, caring, sensible, and mature around him. Want to become a better look for a person you like, want to manage this relationship with your own hands, and no longer give up because of trivial things.

I hope everyone,

 can love someone who can make them mature.