The truly recognized relationship, the recognized person, is loved, otherwise no matter how many things you do that look like a couple, you are nothing.
In an intimate relationship, sense of security may just be a response, let me know that you care about what I say, you care about what I do, and you still have everything about me.
Lovelorn will not let you learn the points for attention in the next love, will not accumulate the experience of your relationship. The only thing that makes people believe is that we wipe our mouths clean after every meal, clean our collars every time we go out, and put on a mask after crying bitterly for ourselves.